The FREEDOM of changing a phone number!
The FREEDOM of changing a phone number!
Hello,
I am now on my 2nd week of TRUE no contact. (after going back and having him break up with me yet again for having PMS that week) I went away for the weekend, with him telling me he was looking forward to speaking to me when I got back. By the time I got back, I changed my home number and my cell number.
He came to my door Sunday night. I told my son to not answer the door and no close the window shade. This man stood outside saying "what the f**k?" and stayed there for 20 minutes looking up at my windows. He even threw a snowball at the window. Eventually he got into his truck and drove away. When he got home he sent me a nasty little email stating "too bad you like to play hide and seek and that you got your son involved." He then called my sons cell phone, which I immediately shut off and changed his number the next day. I blocked him from my email.
Two days later my hammock was stolen out of my yard mysteriously- there were no winds, and it was secure on a heavy chain....hmmmmmmm.
Anyway, I have been in weekly therapy with the DV organization here (they are GREAT!), and I have gone on a medication called cymbalta for the anxiety and depression, which seems to be working quite well. I erased all pictures of him from my computer, threw out any and all reminders of him, washed my sheets and towels, and started reconnecting with old friends. I have even gone out on a few platonic dates (not for the purpose of being in a relationship but just to experience conversation with a non-sociopath for a change.)
These last few weeks have been wonderful. Going to go back to yoga next week every day, spend time with the kids, and look forward to such a great new year!
Cutting these guys off at the pass by blocking them from contact is awesome. Every day I have less thoughts about him and less anxiety. There is a whole world out there with people in it who think I am just fine!
The most important thing about changing phone numbers is that you no longer get that p.t.s.d. jump when the phone rings...You are insulated! I highly recommend it.
New voice mail message
Nevergoback
This is a super great
hahahah that is great!
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
NancyM
What a great way to start
control
Good for you! I also just
Hi Stives...
Thanks for all the great