This Forum is pretty special

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#1 Jul 30 - 4PM
hitandrun
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This Forum is pretty special

You gotta admit it, it is different from other forums.
We can agree to disagree, support each other, learn new things, and make fun of the narc/spaths and ourselves.

I'm about 5 months after the D&D and who knows with no contact because of the lingering court stuff(don't know how those of you going through divorces and custody with these freaks do it.)

I still have crying jags. Had one today. It made me so mad. Felt very helpless, and the mere thought of still caring for a lie is mind boggling in itself. But feelings and love for us real people don't just go poof! We are not able to erase those feelings and love overnight. It takes time.

And then I come here and just read the post topic
"Let's Make Fun of Them" and start laughing : )

Even when I feel alone, this forum and God makes it known that I am not.

A little tears (well..let's say cry me a river) can be a good thing.

Jul 30 - 7PM
lynn61
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hitandrun

thanks for your comments today. i also am going through the court process and wish it was over so i wouldn't have to deal with my N in any way. i also had a crying jag today and was frustrated that i still hurt so much(but i guess 28 years of marriage doesn't go away overnight). i want to move on completely but know that if i don't work through each piece of grief i will end up there anyway at a much later date. i too am so grateful at times for this forum and these awesome, intelligent women. thanks again for sharing.

really??

Jul 30 - 5PM
Kelly
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It really is special :)

So many amazing women (and men!) who are so articulate and caring. There have been a few bumps here and there, but it comes with the territory being a public forum. Mostly, there is that something special and I for one think it's because it was built with the best of intentions. The page isn't riddled with ads. No one here claims to be an expert or charging for services (thank goodness :)) and we genuinely care about being there for one another and healing in a positive way. Lisa has done an incredible job of bringing to light a topic that is so in need of attention. Reading the blogs here have transformed my life. I wish I knew then what I know now . . .
Jul 30 - 5PM
helldweller
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hitandrun

Oh! If only it went like the song and he would "cry me a river" as we did over him. Nope. Open up a new bottle, dial a new number and "fall in love" as usual for them. Yes, it is a very special forum, and the depth of the sickness that we discuss with such authority, such maturity and such determination (more than most professionals even could)is incredible. I feel like we are quite a special group--and a true hope for the future.