foolnomore's story
foolnomore's story
How could I be so stupid?!
A drunken one night stand with an attractive man ended up being 2 years of his appearing and disappearing. I had no idea what I was dealing with and felt free to say what I wanted, how I wanted. Obnoxious and carefree. Little did I know that I was dealing with an entity I knew nothing about -- didn't even know this sort of "person" existed. Well, after several encounters (some sexual, but most often him barfing information about his glorious self & withdrawing sex), I finally listened to my gut....."something is so wrong here, but I just can't pinpoint it."
Well, Mr. Fabulous who "hoovered", hunted and eerily stalked me (actually found my online dating profile and showed up on one of my dates), took off his mask and showed his ass. Mr. Wonderful/Phantom came over and I didn't even recognize the man I was initially repelled/attracted to. He used to be handsome. When he came through the front door, his physical stance was different, he scowled, complained, growled, argued, belittled and bragged on and on about his conquests and spoke about women in the most demeaning manner. He also degraded me and rejected me physically. At which point I knee-jerked and cut him down in every which way possible and demanded that he get the hell out of my house. He called me 5 minutes after he left wherein I hung up on him. Obviously, his NS supply was dried up.
Have not heard anything since and don't intend to because I blocked his number from my phone. I finally stumbled upon this website in dire search for answers to why a seemingly charming man would appear, disappear, reappear and be so AWFUL in every way humanly possible. Dark and ugly never crossed my threshhold.
Thank you for all the valuable information. I will never let this hallowed horror into my life again. My concern at this point, is what type of reprocussion/revenge I may expect. Gosh, I feel like such a chump!
I commend all the strong women on this site. Any advice you can provide would be appreciated. Stay strong ladies!
Way to choose yourself, FNM!
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