feeling like I don't matter, like nothing I do matters
feeling like I don't matter, like nothing I do matters
I thought I was over letting my narc hurt my feelings.
I picked my narc up because we work together and I'm an idiot. She has been asking me for weeks to bake her cupcakes. She finally wore me down and I said I would as long as she would take them into her house when I picked her up in the morning. She said okay.
I show up with my lovely cupcakes and she refuses to take them inside. She says she will just take them to work. I am angry because I didn't bake them for the office and would look stupid for baking them at all- for no reason! She refuses to take them inside.
We drive away and she can see that I'm angry so says that we can just leave them in my car until the end of the day and then she will take them with her. Now I'm fighting back tears. I'm so hurt. She can see this and now insists that I turn around so that she can take them inside. I do because if I don't turn around, she will be angry and I don't want to deal with that at work.
She spends 10 minutes trying to get me to say why I am upset. "Why are you crying over cupcakes?" All I can say is that it made me sad that she would just leave them in the car. Now, I'm getting the silent treatment.
Am I too sensitive? Now I think this comes down to me always feeling like I don't matter, what I do doesn't matter.
What do you think? Did I overreact? And yes, I know, any contact with narc is going to cause me pain- even if it is just a ride to work. It's been 2 years since we were anything more than friends so I thought I could handle it.
a laughable update!
this person sounds really
herlastestvictim
THANK YOU!
Ha ha
DONT EVER BAKE THE BITCH ANOTHER FUCKING THING!
I would have eaten the
You didn't over react
She no more wanted those
sparrow is right...agree
This is not about cupcakes at
cup cakes
I dont' think you
That pretty much sums it up TNR1