Facebook=narcissits dream!

I saw with my own eyes what a phony fake he is with false images on FB tp pretend he is living large - this helped break my denial...

But I seriously HATE FB! I didn't when I first started dating my N, but I grew to hate it. He had an addiction. Even worse, he created a completely different personality for himself on FB. The doting father, the guy that helps orphans, the overall GREAT guy. He also posted photos of all our vacations together, but I was never in any of the pictures. We had several conversations about how weird that was. He always made me feel like I was just insecure. It was maddening to watch him stare at that computer screen night after night. My favorite was when he accused me of looking over his shoulder. I probably was...but I just couldn't figure out what could be so compelling for 10+ hours when I was a real human right next to him ready to be his girlfriend. Narcs and FB are a dangerous combination!

Mine was - and I'm sure still is - on FB every day, multiple times per day, and has collected over 400 "friends" . . . but he's never on chat, he never, ever posts anything on his own page, and he routinely deletes anything anyone else posts on his wall. I believe he uses it to watch what everyone else does while not letting anyone know anything about him.

because they can paint themselves any way they want. Mine used it to study me, pursue me and eventually used it as a tool to D&D me. When I was "defriended" I was told a bold faced lie that she did not "use FB that way". She had clearly moved on to pursuing other women on FB and was clearly trying to hide this from me. They compartmentalize and FB works well for that. Can you just hide mutual friends for now and not look? In my case I had to get off all together because it was so hurtful to me. Your true friends will still find ways of connecting with you. Just a thought. Peace, Rose

The ex-Psych prof was extremely *PARANOID.* When I read one of his essays online my freshman year about "War and Peace",he *FREAKED.* After the final D&D, his essays now have pay walls (except for the one I read my freshman year, ironically) I had told him that if he were scared of people reading his writing without paying, he might as well get published. When personal info about his wedding&children were posted, it was yanked. I had sent a congratulatory email. It didn't stay up that long;it vanished into the virtual ether. Ironically, his father IS all over the internet, ruminating about how terrible Berkeley liberals are, birdwatching, politics, education, a Renaissance man. Obviously, Daddy is an extrovert.

they have always functioned and always will...my dad was narc personified...had he live till now he would be over nearly 100...when he was born and growing up...there was no phones,texts ,computers,no real technology....he still had 3 wives...kids all over the place with diffrent women..and still got married again at 65..to a 17 year old...me and my then husband...were older than HER PARENTS ....lol...believe or not he divorced her when she was 20 and said to me....she gets on my flicking nerves..so i let her go back to her parents.......yep, she was emotionally vulnerable..... i hadnt even heard that expression then...but i have learned so much since.....WHATEVER AND WHERE EVER THERE IS A NARC ...THERE WILL BE A TOASTER...SORRY I MENT A SOMEBODY..

what about to delete all of them? Believe me the world won't stop because of a little revolution in Mr. Zuckerberg's castle. Delete Mr.N and ALL common friends. Leave only those few people, they are REALLY your friends. That's it. Stupid fb.