EX and new wife and son
EX and new wife and son
I guess sometimes its hard trying to wrap my mind around how sick and sad these people are. Son started talking some more about his dad. I feel so bad for him.
He said his dad got another ticket sunday and new wife let him have it. She is also paying the way for everything. Ex use to talk about her house and her money. Well he got what he wanted a new supply and access to her and her money. Its sad for her but I realize I am so ready for him to go his way now. Its sad but he married her for what she can do for him. He is all about him. I never hear son say what he does for her. He said his dad wants a new motorcycle. He had to sell the old one in our divorce because he couldnt afford it on his own. I was thinking how I am worried about sending son to college and making sure his needs are met. Then ex is worried about the now and how to meet his needs. What did I see in this man for almost 20 years? How did I let this happen?
I realized I am a backup supply and that has finally stuck. It really sunk in after son was talking last night. I have been reading on the restraining order. I start all the process to try and settle things thursday. I keep looking for the what next regarding son. That is the only way ex can get to me and he knows it. Ive tried really hard to seperate myself from ex.
I feel guilty about my son and cant seem to get past that. I feel like I am leaving him to the wolves so to speak. He cant divorce his dad. I hope and pray the new therapist can really help son learn to cope with his dad. Also show me ways that I can help son.
Son and I set up a code word. This may sound silly. My mom suggested it. (she has come around to seeing ex for what he is finally). Son was suppose to spend an extra night sunday with his dad. I knew something was wrong. He said he was ok with it. I made him come home. I explained why and how I felt uncomfortable with him staying. He said he was actually glad because he gave in and agreed to stay so his dad would shut up. He said mom I still dont want the extra time with dad. I just feel for my son.
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