Evidently my attitude sucks and I have a short fuse! Anybody else?
Evidently my attitude sucks and I have a short fuse! Anybody else?
My friends, my kids and family keep telling me I'm hateful, my attitude sucks most days and I have a short fuse. Has anybody else had their friends and family tell them this during the healing process??
Ok yes, I am a little irritated and my fuse is short BUT I just don't have the patience for stupidity anymore. Mean people, stupid people and selfish people drive me insane and I don't mind telling them what I think. Nobody understands why I'm not the doormat they use to know!!! I think it's a good thing! I guess I could work on how I deliver the message but I honestly don't care at this point. Not today....maybe tomorrow.
I refuse to let anybody treat me like the Narc did. I won't be talked down to, yelled at, lied to, taken advantage of or any of the other crap he did! I guess my family and friends shouldn't suffer because of him but right now I just can't help it!! I don't want to be a bitch but I think that is better than a doormat! Maybe I'm taking it too far. Honestly it is a REACTION and not something I think about most times. When I come across mean and hateful it's not because I try.....it's a natural reaction. It's almost like a defense mechanism.
Anybody else going through this?? How did you deal with it?
He has changed my personality. Bastard.
Yes
House cleaning
I was angry and bitter for the last few years!
Yep!
Sara-Smile, you are sooo not alone in feeling this!
me too Ive learned that all
Anger
I've only recently come into
Sara
Hunter
Then we will really be
Yes...I went through it for
Deidre
you could just go kick your
Don't tempt me!! LOL
and then he can kiss yours.
Short fuse
Susan
C-PTSD?
Mega
Hypervigilance maybe
student of life
narc changed my personality
Blindfaith
lol can i come? :=)
Sure Deidre!
hahahaha! that's hilarious!
I was the same way after the
redhead
Right now I would prefer a