Everyone Out Here Keeps Saying The Narcs Are Miserable...Really?
Everyone Out Here Keeps Saying The Narcs Are Miserable...Really?
Hi, all. I am having a bad day with narc fever today. So many other great things are happening, but the narc fever remains.
I have seen many posts out here from all of you saying they are miserable, they live in hell, they are this and that...So it makes me ask, "Are your narcs really miserable?" I mean, I am miserable, and I will step up and yell it out. Him? He seems like he is doing fine out there. It makes me look back and wonder what was ever wrong with his life to begin with, if anything, that he needed to be loved by me. Yes, I am pretty great, I get that, but I never saw what was so bad at his house. He has a much better life than I do.
My narc is out doing something with his kids. He was out all day doing his routine and Saturday errands. Some relative of his wife got him tickets to an upcoming basketball game, etc. He does not seem miserable to me or in hell in any type of way.
I am in today because I feel like being in, but I am not happy and out there living normal, not by a long shot. He never says anything is wrong, ever.
Also, as some of you know, I am still in contact with a work tie in with a relative. The romantic notion and part of this is gone, and even though I thought I could continue like this, I realize I can not. Every day that I still talk to him where he never mentions the past or say any of the things he used to when he "loved" me is just a constant reminder that I got screwed over.
Does anyone else feel like this? They are the sick and disordered bad people, but they are out living normal. We are on a forum like this, and a lot of us are in tears daily....I'm just saying....
Are they Miserable???
When I congratulated the ex-P...
This is exactly what they do, each and EVERY time.....
stay~strong
normal lives
helldweller
fireflie
helldweller
they are out living normal.
nerverlookback is correct.
Hey insect
yes..
It doesn't really matter to me if he is miserable or not....
What I have read
well put Agnes
very well stated AM
stay~strong
Make Lemonade
Thanks to all who replied
Interesting
Journey on...
Was he trying to make me look like a Narc?
I like this! :) Thanks, AM17!
Just like they can fake a
faking it
Stillhurting
victimnomore
are they miserable?
I thought this too initially
How happy can he be, really?
Stilllhurting
Scotchy-I'll back this up
yes...
daisyme