Erectile Dysfunction

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Mar 8 - 4PM
agnesmurphy17
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ED

There have been a lot of discussions on this forum. ED seems quite common to these types. Whether it is due to excessive masturbation while viewing pornography or sleeping around with other partners (plain wore out), or latent homosexuality, or just that's the way it is with psychopaths. Mine told me about the fabulous experience he had with his ex-wife going to a sex club in Brussels. After I left him, I contacted his ex-wife on the internet. She said, yeah he wanted that, she went to keep him happy, they went 3x & he was a limp as could be! He told me that she had a great time having sex with women (she denied that). The woman who came after me found viagra. I never knew that he had that prescription. But then I never knew about the pornography. She found that too. She was a snooper. I told the ex-wife that I felt that he was trying to push me into S/M. She told me that I was right. He did that to her. Sexual perversions are normal for these guys. Sex without emotion is rather banal & boring. These guys have no emotions. So, what does one expect other than dysfunctions & perversions.
Mar 8 - 3PM
neverlookback
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COMMON

Ya MR ED preferred to use his hand vs stimulation from a woman, Mr Happy only worked when the dirty talk was full in force even then mr happy would get sad, ish you can throw your sex life out the window if you live with the majority of them, especially the sexual addicts
Mar 8 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
MyNaturalState
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Wow. Yes, his own hand. YES,

Wow. Yes, his own hand. YES, the endless dirty talk which I also never experienced before. Im totally glad I asked this question!
Mar 8 - 1PM
Susan32
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ED

I was always afraid that if I married the ex-Psych prof, that ED would be an issue. Our "relationship" happened around the time Viagra was invented&hit the market, and Bob Dole was still touting it on TV. He was so disconnected from his own body. Normal guys suffer from ED because of a variety of issues... but with PDIs it's even more so. The ex-P would say that even if our relationship became sexual, he'd engage in self-stimulation. The only teacher I've ever had who admitted to a major masturbation habit. He was the only prof on campus who was the subject of some incredibly crude masturbation jokes. He was absolutely enamored of his pen*s, and it was joked that he wanted everyone to worship it... because he wore tight pants. Even his translation of "War and Peace" had a picture on the cover of a Russian soldier in VERY form-fitting pants. The ex-P had emotional impotence, not just the physical kind. It's like his physical impotence was an extension of his inability to connect emotionally. When I saw him with his girlfriend, he didn't even act halfway interested. He didn't even bother to pretend he was interested in her sexually. The ex-P compared himself to the fictional character of Ignatius Reilly in John Kennedy Toole's "Confederacy of Dunces",who spends his days emotionally abusing his mother, conspiring against other people, binge-eating,and masturbating.
Mar 8 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
MyNaturalState
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"The ex-P had emotional

"The ex-P had emotional impotence, not just the physical kind. It's like his physical impotence was an extension of his inability to connect emotionally." Interesting! Something to think about.
Mar 8 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Susan32
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Impotence

As a Catholic, I would've been able to get an annulment for impotence. Thank goodness I didn't marry him ;) The inability to consummate the marriage is a big deal (whereas sterility is not)... no wonder the ex-P wanted me to leave Catholicism. I think the ex-P's impotence (emotional&physical) was the reason why his liaison with his openly gay colleague fell flaccid. I couldn't connect with the ex-P academically, intellectually, and emotionally. How could I expect him to um, get it up? He'd suddenly lose enthusiasm on his favorite subject of Wittgenstein when I brought up Wittgenstein... it was like the virginal, coffee shop equivalent of a guy falling flaccid after he's got the lady all fired up for sex. He'd get me all excited about Wittgenstein... and then withhold. I'm glad it never got to the bedroom.