emotionally unavailable man

There is so much important information in this article - and the web site - that I could relate to and that helped me understand my situation. Please read:

http://masksofsanity.blogspot.com/2011/04/emotionally-unavailable-man.html

"His seduction techniques are often subtle and well-practiced - It will seem he did nothing to seduce you until you look back and analyze it. He sat and stood close to you, he brushed against you, but it didn't seem to be on purpose."

My narc did pull the "brush up against you" technique and then bragged to me about his seduction method later, once I was 'his'.