Email from me , Email from him
Email from me , Email from him
I am not posting this to air my dirty linnen in public but rather i feel this is a perfect exsample of the twisting of events of the narcissist.
I wrote this email to my ns after a horrible brow beating agument the night before . The reason for the argument is still unclear .
Dear ****
The problem with us is the way you speak to me . I woke up with the words "i can go on all night like this and make you feel like shit , is that what you want " ringing in my ears .Believe it or not this is very abusive language .There have been several times when you have said to me "if you keep going on about things i will dump you " This again is emotional abuse .
Iam not in a relationship to be spoken to like this . Weather born out of frustration or anger is your issue and its not for me .
I feel very hurt and misunderstood . I feel if i dont point out theses things out you will think its ok to do again . Its not ok .
I , like all people deserve to be spoken to with love and respect what ever out diffrences .Thats all i have to say .
right .. are you sitting down girls (and boys ). here is his replie .
Dear peru
Personaly i think our frustrations are born out of something much deeper. You think you want me but can not accept me in all i do . I have allowed myself to be drawn away from other things to focus on you as i know you are insecure and i like to be there for you . All i ask is for this acceptance but instead of acknowledging that you seem to want me to fight your every battles and this is where we have escalated into this stalmate of anger and misunderstanding .
You know deep down i am not abusive , so this is the thing that has manifested it .
I know deep down you should not feel insecure , you are a beautiful person with a shining edge but have been warm down by past relationships and possibly that of your family and life in genereality . This has shaped you this way. No one said life is easy .
All we can do is be there for each other. No one can do anything about the past and it is only by taking active steps to develop your own security that will help you to overcome that and i am trying to help you develop this
Please for the sake of us both let me be me as i do you .
These are the signs of an unhealthy relationship and will only lead to a false viewpoint of future relationships if we decide we are not right for each other (which is where i think we both are at at the moment )
What do you think
PS I hope your interview went well today .
Any comments ?
Peru x
My first thought is on this
Ick...read one of mine...
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.' --Mary Anne Radmache
what an ****hole
wow scoop
It sounds like something xnh
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Disjointed emails
This Email
Wow, just wow!
Read your post
oh paleeeeeze....
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interesting...
lol "unhealthy" , this was
I brought this foward as i
So he's not responsible for
Read it and weep
Some women would poison a
typical
No Responsibility
email
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perutoo - translation
I am going to print