Does anyone have vivid dreams of ex NARCS.
Does anyone have vivid dreams of ex NARCS.
Does anyone have vivid dreams of ex NARCS.
This morning, I woke up in tears. Exhausted form dreaming about my ex.
Every time I dream of him (and I do a lot) I am naked with him in an embrace.
He is kind and wonderful.
I saw the post about never arguing. We never argued, but I think this was part of his plan to drop me fork the greatest height possible.
My current narc husband makes my ex narc look like a sweet little fluffy pussy cat.
So I guess in my head, my consciousness reverts back to time when I was really deliriously happy. I am so unwell and unhappy and lonely and empty these days…
~I’m Isolated with a child, I have few friends and no money to get any more therapy. .
I think my dreams are filled with him because he was the perfection I though I was searching for all my life. Attentive, kind, courteous, polite, intelligent etc etc…
I dreamt first, we were alone in bed together naked and I woke him up by kissing him.
Then later I dreamt that he was with his (Very beautiful Korean model wife). She was shopping and he was in his fast sports car sitting in a car park car waiting for her, and he was telling me that it was impossible and that he was in love with his wife and to leave him alone.
I mean WTF… Why am I allowing my OWN mind to hurt me with the same kind of stuff he did to when he dumped me for the girl he ran off with? The skinny much more sexual girl that he went for over me, almost 15 years ago now… ????
WHAT is that all about???
I woke up and just cried.
I felt disgusted that my mind, that my frivolous unconscious mind would just drag me through that…
Its horrible the hold these guys have on us…
I know my ex-narc was a very different narc to my husband although both cerebral narcs but he was everything to me and I was devoted to him. I got so ill after we split up. Now I know now it was the game playing that ensued after the break up that gave me a form of PTSD/PTSS. I got weaker and weaker and thinner and thinner until I was almost dead form drug taking. I got PTSD/PTSS with narc husband not long after we married so different story all together..
But… Tell me does anyone else get dreams like this?
I don’t dream about any of the nice men I dated. I only dream about narc ex and interestingly narc ex before that… It’s often sexual and very real and diminishes my strong sense of past and make it feel like five minutes ago.
Why do out minds do it?
I guess it’s the brainwashing… its just a drip-drip of past data that they put there to trick us, and it’s still in our minds, and it drips slowly away taking with it your ability to be strong.
I hate my dreams… its hard to heal with dreams like this…
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I dream of him frequently
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
Now he's a ghost
Dreams do get better
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Lisa
Stayingstrong!
This makes me smile
Stayingstrong
Thank you
Stayingstrong
Definitely positive.
Nevergoback
yay!
I dream
dreaming of him
vivid dreams ...yes...
Aceonelady
Brainwashing
Nevergoback
Iv been there!!
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Ive read about breaking or
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