Does anyone else relate to my story??

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#1 Apr 10 - 6PM
ClaimingHappiness
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Does anyone else relate to my story??

It's been almost 5 months since I ended the r/s. Things have gotten better because he has lost interest on us. He is not visiting the kids as often as he used to. As always, he has other priorities and he has pretty much forgotten that he is a dad of 2 kids. He doesn't call or text to see how they are doing. They have even been sick and he never asks. At the beginning he was coming almost everyday using the kids as his perfect excuse, but as the time has passed and i have ignored him completely he doesn't even talk to our daughter anymore. How weird these people are... They don't have love for anybody not even their offsprings. They just use the kids for their own convenience which it's so sad. My daughter says that he doesn't talk to her at all in the little time they spend together because he is always texting and doesn't pay any attention to her. So no daughter-father relationship.

I wanted to ask to people who have kids with the narc if they can relate. My exN 's parents are exactly like him. These people have never cared about my kids at all. They have even covered him up when he is been cheating on me. I heard he had a gf in the past (when I was pregnant with our first child) and he used to say to her he didn't have anything to do with me and he was single. He started to take this girl to his parents' house as his gf and they were playing his game as nothing. Then, they were playing the same game with me and smiling on my face all the time. I'm pretty sure it was always that way. It was so hurtful when I found out cause they are my kids grandparents, uncles and aunts. It is really sad how these people don't care about others feelings and we are just part of their disgusting game. We all live in the same town and they rarely come visit the grandkids and when they do they are all fake and sh$&@. That annoys me very much. They love to pretend and show off how much they care. I'm so sick of these people. They make me sick to my stomach every time. Ughhhh, and when my daughter doesn't show any affection ( cause they are pretty much strangers) they say behind my back that its because I tell her so. These people suck!!!

Thanks for reading! Xoxo

Apr 11 - 10AM
Froglegs
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XNH gets custody every single

Apr 11 - 7AM
shock and awe.some
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Yep, I'm in the same camp CH

Apr 11 - 4AM
onwithmylife
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claiming happiness

Apr 11 - 4AM
lessonlearned
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absolutely

Apr 11 - 7AM (Reply to #6)
ClaimingHappiness
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These people are so sick.

Apr 11 - 4AM
hope29
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I can also relate to your

Apr 11 - 6AM (Reply to #4)
ClaimingHappiness
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Yeah, they just get in

Apr 10 - 8PM
Done sourcing
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Oh yeah, I get it! My ex

Apr 11 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
ClaimingHappiness
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I could not agree more. It