Do you remember seeing the mask slip for first time?
Do you remember seeing the mask slip for first time?
Or maybe the time where it really hit you that something was really not normal? I say this because in my case the mask probably slipped tons of times over the years but I was oblivious.
The one that haunts me though was a few months before we separated. We'd had a few friends over, everyone was drinking, and via the (uncomfortable) friends I learned he was asking them to try to take my clothes off/seduce me. Why on earth he would have thought I'd be interested in that I have no idea (duh, because it's all about him!)
I was so furious I think I may have literally seen red. When they left I screamed at him like I never have before, wouldn't listen to any narcspeak or crocodile tears, then shut myself in the bathroom to get away from him. Luckily I'd opened a drawer because he slammed the door open and if the drawer hadn't stopped it he would have slammed my head open.
The look on his face...that was it, the mask was fully off. It was a very strange combination of red-faced 3-year-old mid-tantrum and raging homicidal grown man. He looked nothing like I'd ever seen him in all the years we were together. I never, ever want to see that again! Gah!
i remember clearly
It slipped A LOT
Susan32...that was hilarious
Except those two are icons...
Susan
Wholeagain
Wow!
Sounds like a Narc/Psych
Susan32
Obermensch-Superman
agnesmurphy
AgnesMurphy
Lisa
I know, right?!
And that's why I watch reality TV
That's bestseller material
A whole lot of nothing
Yeah
Wholeagain