do they fear intimacy
do they fear intimacy
just sitting here thinking of one of the last conversations I had with the Narc
I know technically they cant feel love.. but i know they can fear..
he said that he was having this need, not a want to contact me and he had to fight it off- really fight it off and he culd see that it had the potential to really affect his work.
I scared him...the feelings he had for me scared him as things were so intense between us
we were playing with fire...he didnt want to hurt me
or for us to get stupid and fall in love (he had backup woman at the time)
that we would be in eachothers lives... it was clear to him that we had to stop the nonsense of kicking eachother out etc.
I basically told him- that it seemed as if it was his feelings that he was speaking of and not mine and I would not be falling stupidly in love with him.
Im not sure what he wanted from that conversation really... because I didnt feel manipulated at all... soon after all hell broke loose and he had an overreaction to something minor yet again. I saw him for how sick he is..when I caught him in lies... but this conversation to me was a bit odd.
I have since gone NC..and blocked him. Im sure he was stunned that his best source of supply is gone.
SV says
Intimacy issues
He didn't "fear" you because of any such "love" emotion.
I had just made a `review` of
green girl
No, no not at all, I was
greengirl
Destiny
Thanks for the reminder
Journey on...
Same here Journey :)
I hear you Winter... same
Journey on...
Thank you Goldie
Yes thank you Goldie
Lisa I can relate...it is
Yes, we are the crazy ones..........