Do they act this way with every woman or just chosen ones?
Do they act this way with every woman or just chosen ones?
Im new to this forum so first, THANK GOD for it..It is truly helping me stay NC for over a month after being in a year and few month relationship with one of the most cold-hearted and cruel men Ive ever known and sadly fell deeply in love with.
Long story short, I was always shafted w/time spent together..Id always get excuses that he was so busy trying to get his business in order and that he wanted/needed to make more money so that we could eventually settle down..what a crock of shit..anyway his 'business partner' was a woman..I had a suspicion that they were together..hed blatantly deny it, sometimes getting angry with me over it...we have many mutual FB Friends who would comment about her, saying that she was 'out there' bc of the way she dressed *like a slut hello* and all this other jazz. They were promoting clubs together..bc of my work ethic Id told him that I knew the jist of how clubs and the scene worked, so Id let him 'work' and not goto his events bc I knew women would be all over him, and I trusted him (haha) and said 'u gotta put urself out there so Ill let u work'...anyway..months go by and we goto Miami a week after my birthday (which he did nothing for me)..we actually had a GREAT time except for when a friend said to me that she heard he had a GF...the ho...so I called him and flipped bc I was in Miami first..and he was flying in the next day...again..he vehemently denied it..got MAD AT US for mentioning him...and said that we needed to learn how NOT to talk about him when he wasnt around.. whatever he talked his way out of it..we had a really GOOD TIME..romantic, sweet, fun..week later someone on FB sent me an email with a picture of HIM AND HER KISSING in a pic that was taken in the WINTER...my heart broke and I have been a disaster since...he avoided me at all costs..then BLAMED ME FOR HIM DOING IT..he said that he was sorry for letting the 'next chick' walk into his life but I was to blame bc I always mentioned my ex, saying that hed never treat me so badly..Im like WTF!!! YOU DID TREAT ME BADLY!!! Anyhow, I was blamed for his cheating...he never apologized, and he's apparently still with her..Id bet hes been with her for at least 5 months now...My question...do you think he will treat her the same? Or will he be good to her? IDK why this bothers me..I mean Im pretty, educated, stylish, get hit on all the time..and he left me (well by default) for a girl that poses half naked on the internet all the time..I dont get it..why is he good to her? IS HE GOOD TO HER?? WTH He told me he couldnt settle down but then ppl are saying shes his GF..I am confused..I dont cry much anymore..Im still in a zombie-like state really. I feel attached to my computer..bc I dont want to go out yet..I try..I just Im not ready yet...Can someone help me out here..How long will it take..or will it happen with her..oh then he told me "Her and I wont last very long, she is not on my level mentally..at all...you were the only one" WTF!!!!! WTFFF and WTFFFF!!! HELP----please???
They abuse ANYONE
Sweetheart, he will do the
My ex has had from my
findingmeagain
hi, suzieswizzzle
Susie
Wow Goldie
Clearly you were the madonna
One of the great things about this Narc thing
Michele, Different bodies or
They don't change. They only
Busy guy?
Spot on!
Definately treat them the same!!
Even with men
do they act this way with every woman
These people are scary
these people are scary
Suzie
Hunter
Rinse & Repeat?
Susie
the Devil...
regarding the Devil...
I feel this way too I would
Susie
Nature/Nurture
I can't say that either of my parents is officially an N
Hopeful...