Do Narcs ever stop hoovering/trying to contact you?!

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#1 Feb 18 - 11PM
solidground
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Do Narcs ever stop hoovering/trying to contact you?!

So it's been two full months NC for me. It was difficult in the beginning but now I realize just how much better my life is without this guy and his crazymaking. The only issue I'm dealing with is just how relentless he is. I changed my number recently because he would text me/call me from other numbers, as well as anonymous online texting services; he sends me multiple emails a week alternately railing against me/begging me to take him back, messages me on multiple social media platforms, etc. I ignore all of his attempts at communication and have successfully blocked him on websites, but it's like he finds some new way to contact me no matter what I do.

When I hear from him I can't help but feel panicked and scared. It's triggering for me and sends all the emotions back up to the surface. I was wondering if any of you ladies out there have any advice or encouragement or could share stories about narcs and hoovering. When did your narc stop hoovering? Do they ever stop? Will I ever be rid of him?? How long could this take? I guess I'm just frustrated and overwhelmed trying to deal with this.

Feb 20 - 6PM
sunflowergrl70
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two words. Restraining Order

Feb 20 - 10PM (Reply to #16)
solidground
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re sunflowergrl70: I feel

Feb 20 - 7AM
onwithmylife
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solid ground

Feb 20 - 7PM (Reply to #9)
thebigpayback
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this is so true. i 'unmasked"

Feb 21 - 2AM (Reply to #14)
shock and awe.some
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TBPB, I agree with you

Feb 20 - 8PM (Reply to #11)
Lacey
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Not necessarily my case

Feb 20 - 8PM (Reply to #12)
Laci423
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curious Lacey

Feb 21 - 7AM (Reply to #13)
Lacey
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They make their own choices

Feb 20 - 7PM (Reply to #10)
leslieisback
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It is sad thinking we trained

Feb 19 - 2PM
shock and awe.some
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Hi SG & Welcome

Feb 19 - 10AM
Deidre99
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Even many narcs who have new

Feb 19 - 10AM
Laci423
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solidground

Feb 19 - 10AM
Lacey
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Some never stop

Feb 20 - 10PM (Reply to #4)
solidground
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you're right.. they ARE bored

Feb 19 - 2AM
PinkPeony
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Goldie Just Posted a Good Link about Hoovering

The Narcissists Girlfriend

Feb 19 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
solidground
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Thanks to everyone for their