Do Narcs ever stop hoovering/trying to contact you?!
Do Narcs ever stop hoovering/trying to contact you?!
So it's been two full months NC for me. It was difficult in the beginning but now I realize just how much better my life is without this guy and his crazymaking. The only issue I'm dealing with is just how relentless he is. I changed my number recently because he would text me/call me from other numbers, as well as anonymous online texting services; he sends me multiple emails a week alternately railing against me/begging me to take him back, messages me on multiple social media platforms, etc. I ignore all of his attempts at communication and have successfully blocked him on websites, but it's like he finds some new way to contact me no matter what I do.
When I hear from him I can't help but feel panicked and scared. It's triggering for me and sends all the emotions back up to the surface. I was wondering if any of you ladies out there have any advice or encouragement or could share stories about narcs and hoovering. When did your narc stop hoovering? Do they ever stop? Will I ever be rid of him?? How long could this take? I guess I'm just frustrated and overwhelmed trying to deal with this.
two words. Restraining Order
re sunflowergrl70: I feel
solid ground
this is so true. i 'unmasked"
TBPB, I agree with you
Not necessarily my case
curious Lacey
They make their own choices
It is sad thinking we trained
Hi SG & Welcome
Even many narcs who have new
solidground
Some never stop
you're right.. they ARE bored
Goldie Just Posted a Good Link about Hoovering
The Narcissists Girlfriend
Thanks to everyone for their