Do daughters of Narc mothers choose Narc husbands?
Do daughters of Narc mothers choose Narc husbands?
I have the type of mother daughter relationship where what my mother says....GOES. I have never told her how I felt and have bought her gifts and whatever else I could possibly do (even work for her for a few years) to keep her happy and win her love.
I was always quiet and it's been like this for years...I used to admire how other moms were with their daughters. I eventually went to a psychologist because I had anxiety and she told me I need to do what makes me happy...I need to set boundaries because the way I was living my life was for my mother. She told me I needed to let go of the fear I had for my mother and live my life my way...I eventually did this when I met the Narc and he was all for supporting me in healing over my mother daughter issues.
I always go out of my way for friends/family etc and love being able to help them whether it was financially or emotionally. Obviously when I met the Narc he needed me to hold his hand and be there for him and told me all the sorry stories in the book which I fell for so now i am left wondering if I chose the Narc because I wanted a relationship where it would give me that love I felt was always missing with my mother
It puzzles me, but there is
My sister loves to say...
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daughters of narc mothers
THANK YOU
yes
The answer to your question
It sounds to me
My mom had major narc traits
Victimnomore, please research
No coincidence