Divorce is Final Today--I feel free

N had to go to court today to "take" the divorce since he filed. Tonight I am feeling kind of free. I'm no longer married to an uncaring, uncompassionate, thoughtless reptile. I deserve better, and maybe someday I'll find him.

In the meantime, I'm picking up the pieces and trying to move on. I told my kids that the divorce was final today, and they seemed okay about it. He had visitation tonight from 6-8 and he texted me in the middle of it to complain to me that I have given our children "too much adult information." Wow! I am so powerful that I am still to blame when he is having problems, even though we are divorced and I haven't spoken to him or had contact in about 6 months!

No Barbara, I didn't reply, and I wasn't here when he dropped off the kids, even though he apparently drove around the neigborhood waiting for me to come home.

I am having some health issues, and may have to have surgery to remove an ovary with a cyst. This is my focus today, that and getting a job, insurance, food on the table, paying off debt, etc. NOT HIM!!