the crazy excuses they make for D&D

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#1 Nov 23 - 12PM
Godhasaplanforme
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the crazy excuses they make for D&D

After reading Leah's story, I realized they really make the crappiest stories when they D&D. Its like they don't even want to put some effort into making it look or feel realistic.

I've had two serious, long term relationship...both with narcs (stupid of me..i know)

The first one said he had leave me because he had contracted Tuberculosis (TB) at work and couldnt be with me

i KNOW...such a jerk...and that too after two years

The second one didnt even want to give an actual excuse,...he blamed it on me and called me TOO emotional and insecure.

I later found out he had been messsing with a girl from work since the beginning of this year...all three of us worked together so I ended up quitting

UGH, so so so disgusted but need to recall these memories to keep the anger alive!

Nov 23 - 8PM
onwithmylife
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Being devalued and d iscarded continued

mine Gave NO EXCUSES, just took off after 15 freaking years,oh wait, i wrote him a letter after he moved away, asking, God forbid, why the relationship was ALWAYS about his wants/needs, what about mine? That was too much for his majesty to hear so I was further banished and he was nasty, and evil from then on.i never existed as a human being, only an object, so true.
Nov 23 - 7PM
not-an-idiot
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It is similar reasons

Mine D&D me a bunch of times. Every excuse from "you're too emotional, insecure, jealous, crazy, sad, mentally ill" to the newest one "you never treated me like I deserve, disrespect me and isn't there emotionally like I needed". Funny because it's all in his head. I did tons for the guy. Took care of responsibilities that should have been his doing, gave him $, bought him things, spent all my time trying to make him happy. All I wanted was someone to live with, share bills with and have a family. He claimed the same & never tried to work toward it. Any of my emotional responses were normal reactions to his irratic and disrespectful behavior toward me. Now he's projecting all that I'd told him about his emotional & verbal abuse and disrespect back on me. Pffft. Like I'm the monster?? Yeah right, buddy!
Nov 23 - 3PM
Hunter
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Is there a D & D book?

Is there a D & D book? Theyare all the same. I got" you are insecure, we're just friends, I could have 10 girls if I want, sex is just sex, you are trying to change me" etc. Blah,blah blah!!!! Or Nuts, nuts, nuts
Nov 23 - 3PM
gettinbetter
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in my coughing voice

Narc: "um yeah because you were meeting my emotional needs it caused me to contract TB um so I um am going to have to break up with you but I want you to know I can recover at any moment but I'm gonna be susecptible to catching it again should you decide to ever meet my emotional needs again". LOL LOL LOL Stupid MOFO's. I guess they do provide some entertainment value!
Nov 23 - 2PM
really
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How 'bout this?

"We're fulfilling each other's emotional needs." Huh??? Isn't that a good thing? Maybe even a goal?
Nov 23 - 2PM
positivefuture
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LOL TB!

that's so f-d up! when we were young he always used the "i want to be able to f*ck any woman who crosses my path." yep! straight to the point. as we got older it was the "i want to be able to f*ck any woman who crosses my path, coupled with i am too busy to have a relationship or date anyone (just the 20 other women he was dating, but not me)." oy! these n's are so mental!
Nov 23 - 1PM
gettinbetter
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Omg I'm in my office all

Omg I'm in my office all alone lmao off about the TB people are walking by laughing at me laughing I have tears in my eyes:)
Nov 23 - 1PM
gettinbetter
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Round one "I was young and

Round one "I was young and stupid" Round 2 after 2 months silent treatment "you got feisty and I don't want to fight anymore" As for round 2's finally d and d still waiting on that but of course that would require speaking to me which he won't do because I basically outted him I don't mean to laugh but TB? Omg this stuff is stranger than fiction. Someone get me my sword. Its the pink one rhinestones
Nov 23 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
Hunter
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TB is the winner!

TB is the winner!
Nov 23 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
blueeyes
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OMG!

I thought I heard it all but TB? Hahaha! Holy sheet that's too funny.
Nov 23 - 7PM (Reply to #4)
M
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TB?

Funny, but the dog eating the letter an N sent is better :)