Crazy Email - for your enjoyment
Crazy Email - for your enjoyment
So after almost 5 months of blessed blessed NC, I finally got an email from my crazy narc ex-husband. Thought I'd post it here for everyone's enjoyment. I always found it helpful to read other posters' narc emails and see the similarity - it helped me recognize the crazy. Please note how he is approving of my new bf and how somehow it's all because of him that it happened. Sigh.
No worries - I am in no way contacting him back. I have no need of this in my life anymore!! :)
"Hi, its been a long time. I miss you. I felt I had to write, just this once.
I must first mention that a day has not come where I don't think of you for an hour or more. It would be impossible to impart the depth of regret that I now cope with, for driving you so entirely from my life.
You and (new boyfriend) seem to be in love, as I'd hoped. When two caring people spend time together in an environment of emotional support, it can be like alchemy. I support your relationship with (new boyfriend) and I hope it has brought you undreamed-of happiness. At the same time, it is frustrating to understand that there is deep unhappiness permeating this alls-well-that-ends-well event.
Consider this email an olive branch. An amicable resolution is what I have yearned for, for over a year. I wish you could be a figure in my life, yet I know this is not possible unless you discover it could be enriching for you. If isolation from my existence remains your healthy path, I will continue to support that by minimizing contact with you and the old circle.
It is an endurance test for me to support this need, because my great desire is to write, chat, or call you daily. Not write to gush my feelings at you, but, often, just to reflect with you about some movie, news item, or fanciful thought. I continue to care.
I'd love to inflate this email with a thousand reasons for keeping a place for each other in some part of our hearts, but I'll spare you that epic. If you choose to ignore, I'll understand, and take it as an affirmation of non-contact.
love always,
psycho crazy narc"
Thanks guys for all the NC
What a perfect email. I
so...
Fierflie
sick of it
Fierflie
no
LOL!!
Oh my good god .. this is
BAW, Thank you for posting.
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
What's really great about
Oh yea! Narcs are just SO
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
and
I love it
for
Sounds
My favorite line is....
maybe,
yes for now!
Good gawd
mine
He is a master! Here, kitty,