Communicating with my Family Member who sided with the Psychopath

Thank you to those of you who have provided me with such support over my confusing issue with my Family Member.

http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2012/06/01/major-suffering-psychopath-de...

I finally sent the "Come to Jesus" email (I hope that doesn't offend) to FM.
I've been working on this email for MONTHS.
I feel good about it.

I just want to be done with it either way.
I drew a final line in the sand, and if FM continues to interact I will go NC immediately.
It's up to FM.

I can't control these people.
I can't anticipate their actions.
But I can control MY personal space, and I can draw lines in the sand that keep me safe.

I'm doing it.

The shit storm can come, but I'll be wearing my shit storm suit. (I hope that doesn't offend either.)

I'm ready.