Cognitaive Dissonence sucks! No Contact Tips Please, Ladies!
Cognitaive Dissonence sucks! No Contact Tips Please, Ladies!
Hellooooooo mood swings! One minute, feeling hopeful and strong, a new surge of energy hits me. I am thoroughly convinced that I never want to talk to him again than…..
Wham!!!!! I start feeling sad, missing the something that was in my life for three years. Even though that something was mostly horrible, it had been in my life for 3 years and I have to grieve it.
There were some really good times-no joke. Even towards the end. But when it was hell, it was beyond a nightmare, and there is no going backwards-No way, Jose!
I am getting Narc cravings-thank god I can’t call him-don’t have his number (deleted it on purpose). Missing superficial things-like his smell, inside jokes, gestures. How crazy is that ! He was OVERTLY abusive and over the top and I can’t go back. Yet my mind plays tricks.
The emotional side of me wants him to kind of call me again but the logical side knows that is simply NO GOOD!
I scared him away with by threatening to get a restraining order against him if he called again; that was a few days ago and he hasn’t called since. Tht has baught me some time, Iand I actually feel better already. I am starting to feel sane already and I am feeling my positive energy come back.
The longest I have gone No-Contact before one of us breaks it, is two weeks. Once I make it to three weeks, it will be a milestone and I will post a Celebretory post.
Probably a question asked time and time again- but please give me your tips on staying strong in no contact. What do you do when you get cravings? (Thank-god I can’t call him, but he may call me while I am getting cravings)?
I am sure that I will make it this time, just don’t want to take any chances and want to be emotionally prepared and have a game plan.
Thanks!
Miss Lewis,
Miss Lewis
Miss Lewis
...what they said.:-)
Get it out of your head
Hi miss lewis
Miss Lewis
Thanks Sara. the last one is MAJOR STRONG support
Read this, too.
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