Like clockwork, contact after 12 weeks, 2 days
Like clockwork, contact after 12 weeks, 2 days
The block had run out on my cell phone. They only "last" for so many months. Sure enough, he texted me from his personal cell phone. In October, he texted me from his work cell phone because I had his personal cell blocked and didn't even know his work cell.
He is obsessed with wanting to find out if I moved a man into my house with me. Why should he care? He has a rich girlfriend to keep him happy. He D&D'd me. Why doesn't he just leave me alone??
I have had enough of this. I had politely told him to never contact me again in any way. He turns angry and mean and accusatory when I politely ask him to respect my request of no contact. His texts are brutal. Last summer, I had to get caller ID on my office phone, and report him to my managers, because he would not stop calling me at work. He finally ceased that, just before they were about to take action against him.
I have records (I forwarded the texts to my email) of all his texts saved. I have the phone records from the cell phone company showing that he is initiating the contact. I have a copy of the letter I sent him politely asking him to not contact me in any way.
After this recent contact (this past weekend) I informed him that I keep copies of all his texts and of the phone records and that I will talk with a detective as I had been advised to previously. He accused me of "blackmail" and said I was just like his ex-wife (a saint in my eyes).
I don't think I would qualify for a restraining order. He has not physically harmed me or threatened harm although there are people concerned for my safety now. My manager at work wants me to write a letter to his boss because 1.) he used his work cell to harass me and 2.) I am a dues paying member of the organization for which he works and this makes it a much more serious situation according to my boss.
I refuse to live my life in fear of his harassment if I can stop it now, once and for all. He is a sick man and must be brought to task. I pay his salary for cripes sake! It isn't fair to me to have to endure this being always in the background of my life.
I just want to live my life in peace. He has to stop.
You pay his salary Monica?!
I have gone total contact...key word "I"
I think I get what you are saying.
Abreva...thank you...you get it!
Hi Monica, you say you do not
I don't contact him, he contacts ME and I tell him to STOP
Hi Monica, I didn't say you