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ONE MONTH NO CONTACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

...One month since phone number change.

If I can do it, I know you can too.
Please don't give up.

I wanted to share this post with you from Betty... it helped me in some of my darkest times. And THANK YOU BETTY!! MUAH!!!

Fri, 08/06/2010 - 20:11 — betty2020
Do you really want to spend time with that? Please read this over and over. This person is very very sick. He is destroying you with his sickness. I know that this is what you are use to with him. You see his behavior and his abuse as normal. ITS NOT! This Narc is cunning and powerful. You can not make him into what you want him to be. He is a controller, a manipulator and a destroyer. Is this the love you feel your worthy of? Do you see your worth more? He will continue to toy with you till your broken completely. That not far off honey. You need to step back now. You are suffering from Narcissistic Abuse and all the effects that go along with it. This is going to take a lot of time and education on your part to get your life back. We are all here for you but the first thing you must understand before anyone will be able to help is that you have to cut him out and go No Contact with him immediately. You will not even begin to see relief from your pain and agony until this happens. You may not understand or like what i am telling you. I didnt when i first came here but i learned that everyone here was right. I had to follow direction till i could think for myself. My direction was two things in the beginning.

1. Absolutely No Contact with the Narcissist. You cannot waver on this. This means text,email,friends, social network sites. Cut everything off immediately.

2. Stay very close to the board. Lots of contact. Lots of post and questions, read everything, the blogs and everything that is posted. Read in the share your story section. READ them all! If you need one on one contact let us know through the contact email on the board.

This is all you need to focus on. It will all fall into place if you can just do these two things. They are not easy but if you follow those two rules you will come to know emotional freedom and happiness in the future. There is much work to be done to get there but worth every bit in the end. If you continue doing what your doing now, then this is your life. Life of abuse, life of misery, life of hell. Because this is the only life you can share with a Narcissist.
Please stay with us. We will love you when you cant love yourself. Just stay close and follow those two things. I promise you it will get better. xoxoxo