Cell Phones & Restrooms...
Cell Phones & Restrooms...
Well, I'm back on the NC wagon. My exN is off gambling, so it's been relatively easy. Last night I went out with a friend (the one he always forbid me to see) and we had a great time. We talked about him for almost 2 hours, and she really helped me get out of my funk. She told me how lucky I was that I didn't have kids with this guy, no financial obligations... that I could just cut ties and be done.
Two topics came up last night that I wanted to bring up here today. They're odd, and I was just curious if anyone else experienced things like this...
Cell Phone: My exN was always jealous of my phone. He didn't like me getting calls, texts, emails, or voicemails. He didn't like me playing games on my phone (especially games that you play with your friends). Whenever he was the one on the phone with me, he didn't like hearing my phone vibrate or ring or ding when I got any of the above. When I moved out, I remember him telling me, "If I'm on the phone with you, and I hear your phone go off, I WILL be hanging up the phone." So, what did I learn to do? Change my silent settings to not vibrate, and anytime he called me, I'd quickly turn it to silent before I answered. When I was around him, I would have my phone on silent. Of course, he turned this around on me and would say, "Why is your phone always on silent? What are you hiding?" It drove me crazy. Of course, this is all coming from Mr. I Have 3 Cell Phones and I'm On Them All The Time. My friend thinks HE's the one that had something to hide.
Restroom: Here's an even stranger one. Anybody's N have problems with you using the restroom with the door closed? From the very beginning, mine said that if I couldn't pee with the door open, I didn't trust him. I remember one time he stood there for like 20 minutes and said, "I have all day." My friend's comment was... "What were you in? Prison? That's the only place I can think of where you don't have a door. It's a trust and humiliation issue." I never really thought about it that way.
Anybody else have experiences like this?
My Ex did the same thing. I
LetFreedomRing
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lol!
so many similar traits
this thread is too
this thread is too
mine had a toilet paper thing!
LOL! You should have told
I am absolutely laughing my
almostlydia
No wonder I spend way too
almostlydia
Yes, mine had his iphone in
LOL!!
OMG
Peeing in private
Rhiannon
Its all about the
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
"Thank god you can pee in private again"
LOL
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
yup!
phones and restrooms
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