Carla G's story
Carla G's story
My story: Well 9 months ago I got sucked into the charm of a Narcissist. For the last 9 months my money well has almost dried up waiting for his next pay day to be repayed what I loaned him. I have his word that he will give me the money back. But the sucker that I am that small $20 loan has become $2500 over the months and thats not including the thousands that I have spent on him on food, clothes, a trip to Mexico, etc, etc, etc. Anyway if your reading this you know exactly what Im talking about because your probably with or have been with the same manipulative monster.
The reason I write is because in 2-3 weeks I will be in my own home after living with him for 3 months. I have bought a house and take over in 2 weeks and move in 3 weeks. (The house is another story: he wants half but no part of the mortgage, but his name is to be on the deed. I maybe gullible but I'm not stupid) Anyway, in the mean time I'm just trying to cope, which I'm finding more and more difficult as each day to the end draws closer. He knows I am moving and wants me to rent the place out and stay with him, but I have told him I want my house. I have been playing everything cool, as normal as possible. But being constantly, critised, ridiculed, and yelled at gets to even the best of people at times.
I'm just looking for support in my last weeks, someone to chat with when things are unbearable, someone that has been in my shoes to tell me things are going to turn around when I get out. I have come so close to losing it, but my goal is to not let him break me, because I know he wouldn't care anyway.
Words of support and encouragement much appreciated.
Leaving Him Safely
Thanks for the advice. I
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Thanks ladies. Did we date
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