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Can you identify with these text messages?

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#1 Nov 2 - 9PM
surroundedbythem
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Can you identify with these text messages?

I don't like waiting so long to see u. I think I am addicted to you.

"hey doll face! Just wanted to tell u that I love u.I want u and need u too" (sent at 3 AM)

"Speaking of control, when am I gonna see u again?"

"Oh u r the best thing for me! I really love you, truly!"

"When I like something I tend to overindulge" (referring to just having eaten 8 devil dogs).

"I want u with me on New Year's Eve. I want to start the new year with you by my side"

"We will grow old together"

All of these were sent within 3 days of him going online, behind my back, reactivating his profile and contacting a woman and then denying he did so. OMG! Have these people no conscience? Are they even human? Why? Why? Why?

Nov 3 - 4PM
Klarity Belle
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Suckers!

Is what they are - hoover maneovers (sp?) their speciality! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran "That which we do not confront in ourselves we meet as fate" ~ Carl Jung http://www.storyofmylife.com/KLARITY4

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"The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran

"That which we do not confront in ourselves we meet as fate" ~ Carl Jung

http://www.storyofmylife.com/KLARITY4

Nov 3 - 4PM (Reply to #12)
surroundedbythem
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They really do suck!

The good thing is that if I see this happening in any future relationship I will run in the opposite direction! Oh it s so easy to be seduced by such adoration and romance. Like a fairytale but there is never a happy ending.
Nov 3 - 6AM
jaycee
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i can relate

i get the three am texts every morn, although he lives with his whore, he wont let the wife live in peace, but that is because they are not human, they are monsters soulless monsters.........Jaycee

Jaycee

Nov 3 - 3AM
Disillusionedx2
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NO!

And you can't either, its narc-babble, just to keep you wondering and on the narc-hook, remember that good ole supply? Sorry you are going through narc non-sense; it's ridiculous there are empty humans on planet earth. Don't try to make sense of them, they make no sense. Mine told me all of those things one day, the next day he said he hated me and I was the worst friend he ever had, huh? Never mind that he did NOTHING to contribute to the "friendship" as he thought just being his marvelous self was enough, don't think so. They are ALIEN beings. Remember, N's are forever seeking, obtaining, maintaining supply by any means necessary, block him if you can, best wishes.

stay~strong

Nov 3 - 4AM (Reply to #8)
surroundedbythem
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This site

Can you imagine how many woman would be torturing themselves over these lunatics had they not found this site? We wouldn't know that others have gone thru the same exact thing. Problem is, thru the advent of internet dating, these guys are having their field days. I wish we could all publish their names and put them out of business.
Nov 3 - 5AM (Reply to #9)
Disillusionedx2
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yes, it's amazing

Yes, it's amazing it even exist, sometimes it's surreal, it's all a bad dream and I'll be waking up shortly. Can you imagine the women who had no idea what they were dealing with and was drove to the brink of insanity. I am so glad I found this site, there was a time I didn't think I would make it out of his insanity even after NC, they can be published, but mostly, people will think we are just "bitter" X's and we end up looking like the "insane" ones.

stay~strong

Nov 2 - 10PM
aceonelady
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be my last...

My also told me stuff like Be my last....And if you would leave me my heart would fall on the ground and dry...oh ,when i think about this,i get the crips...

Aceonelady

Nov 2 - 9PM
aceonelady
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surrounded by them

Is this guy from oklahoma?sounds like my ex N...YOU CROSSED THE LINE bullshit.....

Aceonelady

Nov 3 - 4AM (Reply to #5)
surroundedbythem
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No

He is from New Jersey, originally, and then Connecticut.
Nov 2 - 9PM
Tinker
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surroundedbythem

i got the same type of texts: we will grow old together i just want you in my arms (which i saw he texted to another woman) when we got back together after i broke my engagement to another man, we spent the weekend together before July 4th. he was telling his friends we were getting married at this point. when i left on monday afternoon to go home, i told him it was hard to leave. a few weeks later, i met up with a woman he used to date and she sent me the email he sent her an hour after i left - asking her for sex and saying he and i were friends with benefits. these guys are subhuman. it took me weeks to get up and think straight. just remembering his humiliation helps me stay away from him. and slowly, i'm meeting some normal and nice guy, but slowly, slowly!
Nov 2 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
surroundedbythem
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Hey Marissa

The thing is, these guys, this one in particular, come off as the perfect dates/boyfriends in the beginning. They are difficult to identify, until they hurt you.
Nov 3 - 4AM (Reply to #3)
julia29
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I got them too. One day mine

I got them too. One day mine would say he loved me, asked me to marry him apologizing for some shit with tears in his eyes, then I usually a few hour later found some stuff on his mobile and his response was, when you are in a relationship you do these thing, tell a person you love them etc.. you should know that, but you're to young to understand, you will in a few years when you are more experienced... HELL NO. You don't tell people you love them if it's not true, you don't ask them to marry you and you don't move in with them JUST beacuse you are in a relationship.. I also snooped and found that the thing he wrote to me, was the same he wrote to others. After the relationship ended he wanted to hook up, I agree but told him that I didn't want to have sex with him, he completely freaked, called me 7 times within 15 minuttes, wanted to know if I was seeing someone else, I had to spend almost 2 hours calming him down.. Well, the next day he slept with some other girl, and 14 days later he found his new girlfriend.