Can they taste a dose of their own Medicine?

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May 16 - 10AM (Reply to #18)
Hunter
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Prision uniform, (orange)

Prision uniform, (orange)
May 16 - 10AM (Reply to #19)
Used
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gotcha

but its not that colour in england, but i do admire the way you got the picture, kudos to you hunterx
May 16 - 10AM (Reply to #20)
Kiwi2005
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So Ready

Great Used... Now I'm all ready for his ass... Let's hope he comes back, you seem to be less angry and more happy! I'm orange suit kind of angry still =) Unfortunately I'm not a fan of orange myself... the Narc was tho, a big fan of the orange (jail) suit =) LOL HUNTER!
May 16 - 8AM
skystar
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Id say no. They cant. I

Id say no. They cant. I tried it too.
May 16 - 7AM
Used
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kiwi205

yes i done it, i planned going back with him and then dropping him which i did, it is to each his own, had i not done it this way, i would have done something else and the something else was a no brainer. he had done a lot to me, but his biggest mistake was disappearing and me holding my head thinking WHAT DID I DO TO CAUSE THIS. and when i relized nothing i had done had warrented him going off for 5mnths, it was over[emotionally] for me , i just had to get away pysically and hurt him in the process and thats what i done, and for 19mnths i havent changed my mind once, thinking oh i wish i hadnt done it, he started it i finished it.x
May 16 - 8AM (Reply to #2)
Kiwi2005
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=) "He started it I finished it" LOVE IT!

Thanks for the input! So he disappeared for 5months and came back or you initiated it? This guy changed his number, I drunk dialed it and then he started pursuing me again for about 2 weeks- after the 2 weeks and before I found this site I kept telling him to leave me the hell alone & he didn't. Then I found this site and decided I would "feed his ego" get him back and then leave point blank, no warning, nothing... but now he seems to be "ignoring" me or simply trying to regain control. Any input?
May 16 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
Used
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missing

no the first time he disappeared was for 2/3 weeks and i was devasted i didnt have a clue what i had done[prior to that we saw each every day for mnths] he came back like nothing had happened, and i didnt say anything, this happened a couple of times, he always came back i always took him back, but the 5mnths times was my waterloo, he gave up his power[without knowing] by disappearing as i have big abandoment issues,so that 5mnths made me relize i could live without seeing him, and so on, so when he came back for the first time since i had known him I DID BEGIN LISTENING TO WHAT PEOPLE WERE TELLING ME ABOUT HIM. so tho it took me about 2/3 years began getting out, i had never iniated contact by then, i then found he had 2 relationships and he was just a pathological liar, i began playing him at his own game ,but got exhausted and ill and so i finished it, by telling him he didnt own me and didnt control me, he still kept coming back[b/c i had gone back so many times] but if he had used his brain ,he should have relized i had never finished it before, and i had never disappeared before, that was always his way, so i changed my numbers, and never aknowledged him again. GAME OVER!!!
May 16 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
Kiwi2005
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Game Over Alright

Wow, that just sounds so familiar. After he changed his number I wrote him a pretty "mean" email in which I then terminated that email account. Well then after the drunken call he started calling & texting. Before that EVERYTIME I told him to leave me alone, he'd pretty much stalk me till I spoke to him. This time though it's different and I wish it wasn't because NOW I know, I know what he's all about- but I believe he knows that I know he has NPD or he's simply trying to "punish" and regain control... I don't know! Your story gives me hope that he'll be back and I can call him out then- but we'll see, I'll definitely keep you posted :)
May 16 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
prinseis33
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I'm absolutely disgusted to

I'm absolutely disgusted to see how these fuckin freaks are sooooo much the same! I went thru the sameeee thing wanting to boost the ego to then go NC! I will warn you howww risky this is yikesssss! 1. Soooo easy to caught caught right back up in their BS! 2. I learned as I was waiting for that chance to ignore I was SO anxious and screwed uppppp feeling! (This weekend) now I previously (3 wks ago) was NC for the 1st time in five years and I lasted 5-6 wks...it was hard don't get me wrong but I realized that is the ONLY way to "win" and get the last laugh! The moral of the story IF and when u have a chance to go NC and have that satisfaction of ignoring them its the best!!! I was worried sick I'd never get to ignore againnnn bcuz I learned that was the best outcome we can achieve with these piece of shit, low life, insane in denial, FREAKS! Mwa
May 16 - 12PM (Reply to #6)
Kiwi2005
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prinseis33

Thanks for the input and advice  I can see myself risking all those things… but it just really pisses me off that all this time I’ve dumped him, I’ve gone NC for days on end… and this last time I wasn’t responding until he said “hey whats up” I responded and his ass ignored me! Who ignores me? (Yes, that’s my confidence speaking) but really! Do you think the time will come when he does finally try to say something again? I’m thinking when he gets fed up of his NS or she gets fed up of him… =)
May 16 - 1PM (Reply to #7)
prinseis33
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you sound just like me!!!

YES!!! I can almost certainly say so without the details!!! Because even this friday and saturday I was convinceddddd that he would NEVER ever ever try again and I'd never get my chance to ignore and "get him" if ya kno what I mean! I desperately neeeeeeded that satisfaction of ignoring! And I got it...now I'm thinkin that b4 I eventually go weak again I should change my # (n not get drunk and txt him ughhh) but if that loser N txt u "hey what's up" he WILL be back again have no fear and don't think for oneee second he doesn't notice your absence he's just not saying anything about it! Unfortunately yes ull hear from him again and yes that will be ur time to IGNORE and do the best thing u can to get him back! Its the biggest fuck you we can ever give them because they actually get off on a real fuck u! Sicks assholes
May 16 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
Kiwi2005
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Follow up

So he did respond and said the following which made no damn sense... "I can't be worried about u, me, and us all the time. It’s too much right now. I am still here but its definitely different. Hopefully you really understand and can just be happy” Let me translate this… I’m going to make you feel guilty and make you feel like ass by telling you I don’t want a relationship, also, Stop contacting me, but I won’t say it directly because when I return in a few months I won’t want you to shoot me down. You know it’s how indirectly his text to me was… what are your thoughts? And Others?
May 16 - 5PM (Reply to #10)
prinseis33
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Ignore please please please

Ignore please please please lol NOW is the time!!!!!! It's the best satisfaction u can get and ur leaving himmmmm guessing what ur thinking and be done with it or the vicious cycle never ends
May 16 - 1PM (Reply to #8)
Kiwi2005
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Yay! I’m glad you got your

Yay! I’m glad you got your satisfaction, let’s hope I can get mine, even if I don’t it’s okay- I can live through yours  Yes please change your number or be sure you block his out… He had changed his number and I drunk dialed (thinking I blocked mine) let’s just say I didn’t and he blew my phone up the next day, I mean why didn’t he look at the time and realize I wasn’t trying to talk!?!?! He has ignored the last 2 texts (he initiated) and I did email him and I said if I don’t hear from u I’ll take it u want me to stop? (like an idiot!!!)… then again it’s probably him regaining his control…! I’m hoping that the reverse psychology gets him to contact me then I can just ignore him for the REST of my life  But yes PLEASE don’t EVER drunk dial or text… it opens the doors in their crazy ass heads… I personally, do not return calls or texts that come in after midnight as I know these ppl are probably drunk =)