Can a Somatic Narcissist change?
Can a Somatic Narcissist change?
I already know the answer to that. I am just having a really hard time with something that I realize is keeping me from healing. I was DD'd 2 months ago after a 20 month relationship. Come to find out the woman:
- lives in his building
- is very happy, vivacious (obviously due to stress and suspicion I was not a happy person to be around for him)
- has a better job than me
- has much more money than me
- very attractive and 10 years younger
And as I mentioned is his neighbor. That part really throws me! Once I realized that he was a somatic narcissist I found out about how many other women there were. Many of which going to his place, so I am confused as to why he would pick someone that lives so close. Anyway what I was able to figure out is that I was the "main source". However, when he found someone "better" I was discarded and replaced. Very easily by him. I don't talk to my friends about this because they don't understand, but the other day I became so down that I confided in a friend about this and her response was "well maybe this is the woman that will change him, maybe she is what he needs". This totally contradicts everything that I have read about this disorder (of which I am 100% confident is what he is).
I am just torn over this and I need to let go and move. I am having a hard time and seeing what I have been replaced with my confidence has taken a further beaten and I just feel useless.
The reason he cheats
People usally dont change a
Here is the thing..it is
I remember when I was the
Perfect description of the plight of the OW Patricia
Nice friend.. What a way to
Is your friend an authority
Right
goldie
Plus ppl who don't understand
It's him not you.... He will
Thank you bGirl.
They don't trade up, down,
You are a Strong Woman!!
Thank you Penny.
I come from money...I would
zzcem
I know that he can't change.
Hi zz. I am a lot older than