BS!! He wished me much happiness and a good life.
BS!! He wished me much happiness and a good life.
After 7 years of N abuse and me being on the begging end, he moved in an OW last year and lied to me about it for several months. During a conversation a few months ago when he finally came clean with the truth, I went off on him but, later, after chilling, I sent him an email wishing him the best and happiness with his OW.
Since then, I had another contact with him and he wished me all the happiness in the world and a good life. He also said he was so happy that my health condition had improved.
You know, at first I thought that what he said was nice but now, I realize there was nothing nice about it. The jerk led me on for years...lied, cheated, false promises, emotional abuse, all of it. Now he moved in an OW and he's wishing me the best!! I do admit that I didn't return his calls last year (after he treated me like shit) which triggered more D & D but, to move someone in that fast...the person was probably there all along.
I'm sitting here feeling sorry for myself and doing the "if only I had..." but that is my ego and addiction talking. Maybe he and his lucky new OW will go on to have a long and healthy relationship...not my issue. My issue is to stop thinking about this shit and to begin figuring out what makes me happy and how to love myself unconditionally. I've allowed one human being to determine that I'm not good enough and I believed it... that's about as bad as it gets.
They are all the same..
be glad he had a new victim not you
Tresor2
Journey on...
Jourrney
Mine used to always say "I
Tresor
What a douche...this guy
I agree!
Not likely sweetie
Fairy Tale
If that helps
tresor2
Thank you Moonshine