Broken, embarrassed, vulnerable and just STUPID.
Broken, embarrassed, vulnerable and just STUPID.
I feel like a huge stupid idiot today.
Its Friday, this is normally where we would spend time together.Yesterday, I put the kids to bed and continued to read "so your in love with a narcissist" I have also read, wwlp and I ordered....In sheeps clothing.
Im sad. Im hurt. Im scared....I have also finished therapy, where she actually said, she can see that I finally get it, that I finally understand that having a narcissistic dad, and alcoholic mom made me who I am, and that I finally understand they are just sick and cannot be helped. Along with my N, I REALLY DO KNOW THIS.
Altho, it doesnt make missing him any easier. Im trying the no contact and he is making it impossible, calling..texting, wonderful gestures, he gets anxious when he doesnt get my full attention or the response he was looking for. I MISS him, yes its pathetic but its the truth, I really do. I DONT want to give in tho....I already did once and felt like a complete idiot afterwards.....My friends cannot understand why cutting him off is so hard, and are really annoyed with me.
They are right tho, after everything he has done to me, I should hate him and never want to see him again....but he just has this way of making me feel that he loves me and understands me. stupid right? I know!!!!
Just like the rest of you, I too feel its an "addiction". I have never had an addiction of any kind in my life!!!!!!!!!! So this is weird.....
Anyway, just venting.
Thanks ladies... I did not
whatever2009
tina
whatever2009 - I Understand
tina
Am I under his spell???
I know what you are going through.
You are not stupid at all.
Im in the same boat .I have
perutoo & whatever
whatever2009
No shame, no stupidity
whatever
You can do it!