broke NC after a year & 3 months, need input :/
broke NC after a year & 3 months, need input :/
hi ladies, long time since i last posted. . . to make a long story short, i've been going through some personal hardships in my life right now, and have made up/made things right with a few people in my life recently, including my older half sister who i haven't spoken with in years due to a huge falling out a long time ago. with the ex-N being high up on that list, i texted him the other day - kept it short and sweet, but explained that i wanted him to know that i no longer harbored bad feelings towards him, was over everything that happened between us, and for peace of mind just needed him to know that. i told him that i didn't need nor did i expect a response, which naturally i never got. i'm now thinking that maybe this was a mistake and/or a bit of a setback, because it does hurt that he couldn't even reply back so much as an "okay". so what now, where do i from here/what do i do? i'm even somewhat angry, like i'd love to write back again and thank him for being a stupid immature jerkoff lacking the decency to so much as acknowledge something that was very hard for me to do, but i know that would be adding fuel to the fire/inflate his head even more/give him the impression that i still "want him", which couldnt be further from the truth, considering i've since been in a yearlong loving relationship with a great guy who treats me like a princess. any advice/words of encouragement? i'm stuck thinking about him all over again since the minute i sent that text. help?? thanks girls, and as always i appreciate your love and support <3
It must be in the water!!
IMHO...
You did own it!! You feed the
Deep down we want a response
Don't beat yourself up. It
I agree with Agnes. It feels
You are
Let It Go
oh he got it, we both have
not fair to the new guy