Blocked him from house phone and cellphone

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#1 Jul 21 - 10AM
Joy2me
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Blocked him from house phone and cellphone

I have been in nc for 9 months. He sometimes calls my house number and cellphone, never leaves a message so I take it not important. I have finally decided to block him from both, it took me this long to do it because I was afraid of his reaction when he finds out. My house phone service will play a recorded message telling you have been blocked. So that kept me from doing it! I was afraid of his reaction to my action. Just like when we were married! I just realized as I was doing it how much he controlled me with his anger! I hate that I let him control me so much! I hate that he changed all his contact numbers and didn't give them to me (not that I wanted them) but HE can contact me when HE wants. He comes to my house when he wants and leaves mail in the mail box can't do anything about that already contact U.S. postoffice nothing I can do. I started getting junk mail at my house with his name and my address not sure how that is happening. I bought this house after our divorce under my maiden name so he is not connected to this address at all but for the last month or two I started getting things in his name!!! I want him out of my life. But just like a cockroach he finds little cracks to come back in.

sorry I just had to vent!

Jul 21 - 8PM
makethismakesense
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I Understand

I totally understand why it took so long for you to block him. I did the same thing. I was afraid when I went NC he would get mad if he called and the number was changed. He is in prison serving 60yrs to life. So of course I had images of him sending hit men to my house. I had to go to therapy before I changed the number. I still wonder if he is mad. You go girl.
Jul 21 - 10AM
spinning
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Outstanding!

Excellent observation on your part. He has burned the bridge, blown up the damn and has absolutely NO CONTROL over you any longer. No access. Zip. Zero. Done. Way to go. I know it's hard getting over the fear and chances are if he discovers the blocks he'll not be too happy. But you can call the cops, start a paper trail, post here, do whatever is necessary to continue to show this freak that you're DONE--over and OUT. I am so happy for you. This is truly a milestone and you should feel very good about yourself, Joy. It really is 'joy-full!!' Most sincerely, (not) spinning. NO LONGER AN OPTION. THE SICK FREAK IS DEAD. HE NEVER REALLY EXISTED IN THE FIRST PLACE.

spinning

Jul 21 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
Joy2me
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Spinning

I forgot, since I learned on this website that he never really existed, I met and fell in love with a persona I decided to change my facebook status to "widow". I hope he saw it and it ruined his day! hahahahha Joy2me!
Jul 21 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
dazedandcnonfused
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that is awesome!

that is awesome!
Jul 21 - 11AM (Reply to #5)
sara-smile
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Joy2Me

That is HILARIOUS!!!! You go girl! Good job!!! Haaaaaaaaa!
Jul 21 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
spinning
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OMG, Joy!

You're on a roll! You go girl! P.s. that's hilarious!!!! And TRUE!!! :} A big hug and good vibes to you for continued clarity, strength and JOY!!!! Sincerely, (not) spinning. AND IT FEELS GREAT!!!

spinning

Jul 21 - 10AM
dazedandcnonfused
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Blocking your numbers should

Blocking your numbers should send a message to him that you are done with his games.