The best kind of NC
The best kind of NC
I asked my sister to help me establish NC by changing the passwords and emails associated with all the online forms of communication I used to stay in touch with him. I told her never to tell me the passwords even if I begged, and I can count on her not to. I also deleted his number from my phone (which I never memorized). I permanently deleted every single thing associated with him; pictures, emails, IMs, SMS, everything. My sister didn't mind helping me, but she thought the measures where a bit extreme, and asked "why can't you just control yourself?".
Theres no going back for me, ive shut down all communication, but her question got me thinking anyway. Is the best NC the kind where you have every line of communication open but choose not to engage? Is it a "weaker" form of no contact if you close down all those lines so that you can't communicate even if you wanted to?
I know if I left any door unlocked I might open it in a time of weakness and didn't want to give myself that option. Curious to hear your thoughts...
I think you can't generalize
Struggling with no contact
survivalist
This is the best post I've
survivalist
I like your diet comparison!!
Indeed! A dieting analogy,
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I'm very fresh off my breakup
You right nessmia, even
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I am in the same place you
I feel for you
I do! I'm a bridesmaid :(
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Good call, lol NessMIA
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