Are they a Narc if they don't hoover?
Are they a Narc if they don't hoover?
My dipshit N has not tried to contact me since we basically brokeup over text. He sent me a text after weeks of no contact saying "Is there any way we can pull this one out of the fire" (a typical cryptic way of saying can we makeup so I can have sex with you because I'm bored and desperate)
This was 4 weeks ago....
I wrote back saying he was acting like a douche etc etc....all I got was a barrage of abuse hurtled back at me and was told someone else could put up with my shit, I was a bitch etc....
Fast forward to present day, he has not contacted me except to say "happy birthday" in a text and that is all.
Every other time he has dumped me he has hoovered within 2 weeks.
I know it is a good thing but after 5 years, I just think WTF???
A part of me suspects he must have a new supply, either that or he can't be arsed too much effort etc.
I agree with lobo, I honestly
Let us prey
new supply
Narc Behavior
Puzzle