Are most Narcissist like this

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#1 Feb 20 - 8AM

whskywmn5

Are most Narcissist like this

I havent had time to read many of the different post here, yet im sure there are many here with this happening to them also. Does anyone elses husband constantly preach to you how you are a demon from hell, how the devil uses you constantly to bring him down. I listen to this constantly how the devil controls my life, and by doing that I bring my husband down. LOL if that isnt calling the pot black. He rants on and on, about how GOD has forsaken him, just like everyone else in his life has, how GOD screwed up when he created EVE from mans rib, if he hadnt done this the world would be such a better place to live.....only because GOD messed up in his grand plan, did his life get so destroyed. Its always about him, him, him....I get so depressed constantly hearing the same speech over and over, not a day goes by that I dont hear how im cursed, so by association with me, of course he was cursed also. Every Sunday morning, he watches every religious show on television that he can find, I think more than anything to torment me with, because watching those he can constantly verbal abuse me by telling me how unworthy I am to be a part of the human race. I know we arent suppose to say anything back to them, I have learnt that much from my reading on here, it only gives them more ammunition to use against you and they can keep up with there words of destruction.

#2 Feb 20 - 2PM

Journey

Whisky

HE is the devil in thin disguise! Run away.....

Journey on...

#3 Feb 20 - 2PM (Reply to #12)

whskywmn5

Devil

LOL i dont think his disguise is working anymore...I can see him for what he is, and im also beginning to see myself as the person he has turned me into

#4 Feb 20 - 1PM

Scoop

Yes mine loved a good 2 hour

Yes mine loved a good 2 hour lecture on how he was so quled up and how i had sooo much to learn .. from him of corse. It wasnt religion it was politics he went on and on about .They set themselves up as perfect and everyone needs help ... mine use to say "Scoop im helping you with youre problems " but when i asked him what he tought my problems where there would be silence from him . he would say "i know you have issues".. eww pass me the sick bucket . After the idolization phase was over he set the relationship up and a "teacher pupil" dimamics .. im 9 years older than him and could wipe the floor with him in intelect 9not spelling though lol sorry its so bad )... if i used i long word i would have to explane what that ment to him and low and behold once he learnt that word he would troll it out in his lectures to me as if he knew it already ... what a fool , how i didnt put a knife in him is a testomany to my calmess under pressure lol

#5 Feb 20 - 6PM (Reply to #9)

Susan32

Teacher/pupil dynamics

The psychopath I dealt with was my teacher... literally, and I was the student. He was 15 years my senior. He did of course do the whole set himself up as perfect and everyone needs help. But believe me, all hell broke loose when I decided to volunteer at a local elementary school. He was against it... because I wasn't being paid. Really. He'd lecture on how terrible religion was, and claim that he was a *philosopher of religion.* He'd frequently demonize me, saying he heard the Devil in my laughter, that I was sneering at him, that he was a saint. Yes, he called himself a saint. He'd call me a slut whenever I wore a dress (thank God his girlfriend/later wife, was butch and NEVER wore anything remotely feminine) He'd rail against the evils of homosexuality... all the while palling around with his circle of young male disciples, and ogling men whenever I was in his presence. He thought sex was incredibly dirty&evil, the "ultimate evil" (to quote Schopenhauer),but when I said sex was good, holy, just misused by us humans--he accused me of being a nun. The final D&D was of him giving endless lectures about the teacher/student roles... and me being bored to tears, literally. But after the final D&D, I was the one being sanctimonious, smug, sneering at him... he didn't know how to handle that. I was the one pompously lecturing him on how he was living his life.

#6 Feb 21 - 8AM (Reply to #10)

whskywmn5

My husband is 10 years older

My husband is 10 years older than me, lol so guess that makes him the teacher in a sorts.....LOL he did teach me alot about the other side of life, never in my whole life have I ever seen or been involved with someone with a personality such as his. Mine claims to be a saint at times also.....must be something in the genes...haha Mine was different in that he didnt consider sex to be dirty and evil.....was something for his pleasure and you just did it when it was expected of you....course he was a master in the beginning in making you believe that it really have some sort of meaning for him....was only later that you realize the only meaning for him was that he used it to control you and have you do his wishes...

#7 Feb 20 - 5PM (Reply to #8)

sara-smile

Scoop

Haaaaaaaaaaaa!! When my idiot Narc didn't understand a word I used I would say "let me dumb it down for you"! This was of course at the end because I would have never offended Prince Charming in the beginning!

#8 Feb 20 - 2PM (Reply to #7)

whskywmn5

Wow only two hours

I know its not something to make fun of, but sometimes better to laugh than to cry....isnt it amazing how they love to turn everything around to suit there purposes..oh i know only how well they are perfect, ive been driving for over 35 years, yet for him im the worst driver he has ever seen, yet when i tell him to drive he wont....lol then who would he have to bitch at.

#9 Feb 20 - 12PM

sara-smile

whyskywmn

Your Narc sounds crazier every time I hear something new bout him! Demon from hell? He's the demon from hell!!! He is religious? If he was a religious man he couldn't or wouldn't talk to you the way he does!! Don't listen to anything the freak says. They are all sick idiots that say horrible things to make their own pathetic lives seem not so pathetic. If they beat everybody else down it makes them feel superior! I'm ready for you to GET OUT OF THERE! Do you have family in the states you can leave and go stay with for awhile? I'm having a bad day today. I'm mad! I'm irritated! These men are vile and cruel and I hate them all. Hang in there and keep working to get out! And ignore the moron! :) Love you! Sara

#10 Feb 20 - 12PM (Reply to #5)

whskywmn5

Yep he is

Sara he is definetly a demon out of hell.....he spouts out all his religious b/s yet he doesnt believe in what the bible I read says, he takes it and twists it to meant his own needs.....that isnt the way it was intended to be used. Oh I know that im not suppose to listen to all his crap and most days I can accomplish that without too much trouble....just the last few days he has gotten much worse with it all.....escaped said in other forum, he probably realizes that hes losing some of the control he has over me, so he has upped the ante to try to bring me back in line, so he can feed off me and my emotions once again. She really gave me some food for thought, on how to deal with him, until i can finally make my way out of this hell I find myself living in. I know we all have days that are worse than others, the last few I feel like im going to come out of my skin, im so keyed up and stressed out at the moment. I can tell you have come so much farther in your journey since the first time i met you, and im sure that we both will someday find the peace and contentment that we desire in our lives, we just had to deal with all the emotions and feelings that our N has heaped onto us over the past few years. Hugs... Maggie

#11 Feb 20 - 10AM

Hunter

Whsky

This man is a head case! Learn right now, every word he says to devalue you is how he feels about himself. Don't take it personally, Keep reading and you will learn these creatures all come from the same cloth! ( the Devils Cloth). The sooner you can leave the easier it will be to heal. Your safety comes first! NC is key! Hugs Idealk

#12 Feb 20 - 10AM (Reply to #2)

whskywmn5

Yes he is

Yes he is most definetly a headcase, i couldnt have said it any better myself. In the beginning when I first started looking online for information about the type of relationship I was in, I stumbled across a site where you could take a quiz as to what sort of personality you were, I did it as if I was him, and I answered as honestly as I possibly could...and wow was that a eyeopener, he scored off the charts in every catergory there was. I wont go into my life history here again, i did that yesterday in a post about my story, but right now im not in a good place, just trying a day at a time to regain a little bit of my self esteem back, so that I will be strong enough to make all the decisions that I will need to make in the next few months.

#13 Feb 20 - 10AM (Reply to #3)

Hunter

Whsky

Stay away from him as much as possible! I'm the tell it like it is chick! Be strong! Idealk

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