Struggling..

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#1 Feb 20 - 10AM
blue1990
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Struggling..

Hello all, I haven't posted in a long time. But I'll make this somewhat short. I have been broken up with my narcissist for 5 months.ive been with a new wonderful man who I live with for 5 months. As soon as I met this guy I broke it off with the narc. The Narc contacted me once or twice and told me that he loved me and asked if I loved my new guy, and I told my narc because of what he put me through it was hard to love the new guy. I'm suffering from ptsd from this past relationship because I was with my narc for 4 years. And I do really like and care for my boyfriend and I want it to work but I still can't stop thinking about my narc and feeling like i miss him. Its consuming me and killing me. My boyfriend has been nothing but supportive. He knows I was in an abusive relationship, so he says it's going to take time. But I still feel under the spell. I still feel compelled to be under him. Like I said it hasn't fully been nc. Once every two weeks I would reach out. (Not him) and check up. But I've never met up with him or cheated on my current boyfriend. Does anyone have advice? It's eating me alive. I want to be happy with this new guy he's so great and caring and loves me so much.. But I'm so used to the abuse.. Thanks in advance..

Mar 2 - 8PM
omgalso
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Hi Blue

Feb 23 - 9AM
Goldie
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Hi Blue