Need Help - Whats his next move

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#1 October 24, 2017 - 9:36am

Need Help - Whats his next move

My ex has been bullying threatening and attacking me for years using our 4yr old son as a weapon. We are in the midst of a full blown custody battle and he is getting desperate b/c he can see the court is leaning toward taking away his 50% custody schedule and giving me full custody.

Last week he told the court that I am abusing our son. That i am hitting him and that my fiance is hitting him. he sent a picture showing bruises on my sons arm. I did some digging and discovered that the picture was a fake! I can PROVE that it is a fake and that the pic does not belong to my son. He is lying about me in court and i am seeing how desperate he is becoming. He has done crazy stuff before. He's vandalized my house causing $10,000 in repairs. Broken into my car. Taken my son out of daycare w/o my knowledge or consent and refused to return him to me. He is on drugs, specifically heroin.

with your collective experience....what can i expect his next move to be. I believe his behavior will become more crazy as he grows more desperate. If and when custody is given to me, i believe he is a flight risk with my son, as he has threatened to do that before. How do i prevent this? How do i prepare?

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October 25, 2017 - 4:51pm

DRogers...

This is all so very frightening to read and personally I have not had an experience quite like it. I do know with the behavior you describe, he seems extremely unstable and there is great cause for concern. Be as proactive as you can be. If you do not have a good lawyer, try to obtain one. Seek out any office in your community that helps with Domestic Violence cases, all law enforcement agencies such as police departments and sheriff departments to inquire within each of these whether or not they can provide you with a victim advocate. Know your rights. Check with child protective services and see what can be done about his manipulation, using your child as a weapon. If you meet with them in advance, they will be familiar with your case and should it ever get to the point where they need to step in because of his false accusations, maybe this will help you as they are prepared. Also, document everything. Date it, share it with a friend, save it in a safe place.

I hope someone else within the forum has guidance for you as I am so very concerned for the welfare of your child and yourself. Please keep us posted, dear. You are not alone.

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