Narcissist leaving you

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#1 May 19, 2017 - 4:18am

Narcissist leaving you

My narcissist told all the best in life and kept leaving me and then he came back,this cycle repeated many times.Did your narc did like that with you?

May 23, 2017 - 1:20am

I am going through this as we

I am going through this as we speak. Since March 15, my bf has broken up with me 4x! Within only a few days at a time! It is like I am walking on eggshells to stay with him and its awful. I cry with him and I cried without him. He knows he's in charge now and he is eating it up. He'll say things like, "Shut the f*** up and let me talk or I'm hanging up this phone!" Every time he breaks up with me, he will continue to say, "I made a big mistake," "I made a big mistake again." He has constantly been reminding me of my mistakes over the years and not what I have been doing to be a better person, today. He NEVER mentions his current and past issues. He argues with me as though he is perfect. It is horrible.

Now that he is in charge, he talks to me any kind of way, chooses when we see each other, etc.

May 23, 2017 - 2:28am (Reply to #2)

My bf abused me and told it's

My bf abused me and told it's his habit to abuse people,even my bf knows that he is incharge of our relation

May 23, 2017 - 5:28am (Reply to #3)

You have the power....

...to take their control away by walking away. Neither of you deserve this treatment! These men are abusing you and have no shame about it. You must get away from them! Lean on us for support. You can do this!

May 23, 2017 - 8:27am (Reply to #4)

Thanks Lisa

Thanks Lisa
It's quite difficult to get rid of him,he stalks me

May 23, 2017 - 11:06am (Reply to #5)

So sorry, Kavya

So sorry he's stalking you, Kavya. Have you considered getting an order of protection against him?

May 23, 2017 - 10:36pm (Reply to #6)

Actually I live in India,and

Actually I live in India,and even my parents are narcissists.I read those who ever have narcissistic parents attract partners like them that's so true in my case.My bf is saying if I do sex with him once then he will leave me

May 24, 2017 - 1:24pm (Reply to #7)

I'm so sorry, Kavya

I'm so sorry to hear this, Kavya. You are right about children of narcissistic parents do attract narcissists. Reason is because you know how to respond to the narcissist - you're conditioned in a way to know how to respond to narcissistic behavior in a way the narcissist likes. I'm so sorry he won't leave you alone. I recommend maintaining no contact. I don't think being with him intimately one last time will really be the end. I think he's lying and you should do everything you can to stay away from him and maintain distance. Do you live in a secure home or building, I hope?

June 20, 2017 - 10:13pm (Reply to #8)

Sorry for the late reply Lisa

Sorry for the late reply Lisa,when I try to comment it's coming ''you are not authorized to comment''.
You are right being intimately with him won't be the end of the relationship,he says he wants to be my friend.I will go no contact when I will move out and get a job

June 21, 2017 - 12:21pm (Reply to #11)

Good for you, Kavya!

Sorry to hear you're having trouble posting here. I'm looking into it.

More importantly, I'm glad you are going to go No Contact! It's the best way for your to heal and take care of yourself. Lots of Love, Lisa

June 22, 2017 - 1:42am (Reply to #12)

Many Many thanks Lisa!

Many Many thanks Lisa!

June 21, 2017 - 7:46am (Reply to #9)

kavya... good plan!

Hello kavya,

This is good to see in your plans to go no contact, moving out and getting a job. Stay strong and follow through. Great start and wishing you well on your journey... keep us updated. We are here for you.

FeFe

June 22, 2017 - 1:44am (Reply to #10)

Thanks Fearless! I will

Thanks Fearless! I will update

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