"aha" moments on my date last night
"aha" moments on my date last night
had a date last night. and had some major "aha" moments. thought i'd write a list:
1. New guy treated waiters/hostess with respect, made eye contact, said thank you. The N was always haughty, arrogant, didn't make eye contact w these ppl who were soo beneath him. he mostly just shook his head "yes" or "no" and I would be t one saying thank you and being nice!
2. New guy did not get a glazed over look and change subjects quickly when I would talk about myself, he was genuinely interested in learning how I became t person I am today.
3. New guy talked about his family easily, what they did, how he feels about them, his relationships w them.
4. New guy asked about my family and friends.
5. In general he asked "getting to know you" questions and seemed genuinely interested in ME.
I feel so psycho because this is NORMAL but I am getting excited over these relatively SIMPLE things.
When I got home I started to miss t N. WHY???!!! I missed t way he'd make me laugh, I missed the fairly tale, I missed the way he'd lean into me in public and act all "gaga" I miss t pet names. But I just try to keep telling myself it was all an act, that he was just mirroring how he thought guys were supposed to act.
I really struggled last night bc it's t first weekend he has really been back in town and I know he was on a date, hooking up or looking for supply. Makes me feel really anxious and super angry.
I am in the angry stage!!!! I HATE HIM! Look who I am now, a person that gets excited if someone opens up a little about his family!!?!?!? I am so messed up!!!!
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