Ah! Luxuriating in the free time!

OK. So I got away from the EXNH-Psychopath over 1 and 1/2 years ago. And then horrible divorce and custody fight, tons of money spent on that. And the property settlement is still lingering (he's running out of ways to punish me, so I expect the property settlement to drag ON and ON, but whatever, who cares, I'm OUT).

So all that said, it's been a LONG fight for getting my SELF back, but I just want to say --- that I started posting here ONE WEEK ago, and already, with YOUR help, I have reached a whole new place of freedom. OMG. I am simply feeling Luxurious in having him partitioned even further out of my life! I'm ecstatic that it's THIS good, and there's even MORE to do. But the fact that he is no longer in my real email box -- and that I can wait until tomorrow to check the special email address I made Just For Him. The free-time! The freedom! The Wonder of NC. It's just incredible.

I have spent so many years of my life - dealing and deflecting his insanity - and I am SO Grateful to have the tangled mess of strings cut away more every day.

THANKFUL!

(He is not allowed on my property - no parking on the street, in the drive
He is not allowed to call me for any reason except to speak to the kids, and that's limited to once per day and he usually doesn't call, and NOT allowed past 7pm.
We communicate email only.
I am mostly ignoring every email because they are Ridiculous.
Exchanges are done at the school or we meet at a fixed public location if school is out)