After sex with the narc

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#1 Mar 5 - 8AM
Sweetwater
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After sex with the narc

Did any of you experience that after sex with your narc you almost felt raped? And not really in the physical sense, but in the sense that you just got raped of some of your dignity? This is something I have been dwelling on this morning. I am not even a full 24 hours into no contact (that is a lot for me, though), and already my thought processes are beginning to change a little bit. It's crazy, I mean we have been in no contact for more than a day before, but just the fact that i am intentionally implementing NC is changing my way of thinking.

Anyway, the sex with him progressively got more and more degrading, and ultimately the worst when I was having sex with him after the first discard. He would (sorry a little graphic) pull out and ask "where do you want it?" Real romantic. Like he was re-enacting a porno. It made me feel literally like an object. I forget what loving sex feels like. This is just something that is eating away at me at the moment.

Mar 8 - 7PM
onwithmylife
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mine would

Mar 6 - 9PM
walking_on_sunshine
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yeah, we were all with the

Mar 5 - 10PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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OMG

Mar 6 - 8PM (Reply to #20)
Sweetwater
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Good for you. I'm glad you

Mar 5 - 7PM
tazmania
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Humiliation

Mar 5 - 4PM
Night Owl
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So true

Mar 5 - 4PM
shazza060969
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What he said....

Mar 5 - 12PM
Maggster
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On the contrary...

Mar 8 - 9PM (Reply to #15)
Dorothy1
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Mine was very passionate and

Mar 8 - 6PM (Reply to #14)
Iseethelight
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I just wanted to tell you I

Mar 5 - 12PM
Journey
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So happy to hear you are

Journey on...

Mar 8 - 7PM (Reply to #12)
Letmego
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I couldn't believe it when I

Mar 5 - 12PM (Reply to #11)
janemarie
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They are freakin pigs!!!! My

Mar 5 - 11AM
jillybean
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Mine said "how do you want

Mar 5 - 10AM
Sparrow
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Sweetwater, you are not alone

Mar 5 - 6PM (Reply to #8)
Dorothy1
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When I first moved in he

Mar 5 - 10AM
pamela1
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Yes, I can relate to how you

Mar 5 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
Dorothy1
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Yes, absolutely mechanical,

Mar 5 - 9AM
dudette
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yes

Mar 5 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
SundaySmile
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ditto

Mar 5 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
Sweetwater
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I'm sorry to hear that

Mar 5 - 10AM (Reply to #3)
dudette
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Thank you sweetwater