After 17 years...I get it
After 17 years...I get it
This board (as many feel) is a God sent life saver!
Thanks to this place, I am in the process, have a therapist, lawyer and 3 great friends for support.
I am literally frozen with fear and anxiety. I can't imagine life any other way, I dream of it, but can't wrap my head around it after 17 loooooong years of trying to be perfect and being a servant and crossing moral boundries thinking if I just keep trying, I can make him happy. WOW, my eyes are open now.
How did you finally leave...I mean physically go. He never married me, we have a dd together and a lot of stuff in a fancy house that I hate being in now.
The therapist said swift and without warning, move out while he is at work and she is at school...that seems great in my head, now to do it. What will I tell her, 11 is a vulnerable age and she adores him. Fear and anxiety are only good for weight loss. Please share your advice and experience to inspire my path to happiness. I know you guys get it. Thank God for you.
My husband and I were both
I left him once before the
I left before too
suzanne