6 weeks no contact and I feel happy!

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#1 Feb 19 - 8PM
foundmyself
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6 weeks no contact and I feel happy!

I just wanted to share my progress. Today marks 6 weeks of no contact. He has hoovered just a few times but I delete delete delete. I thought I would be sad like the times from before but maybe it's because I discarded him this time. I had what you call an "emotional significant experience" and I knew it was time to move on. I don't think he quite knows why I have ignored him, especially since he thought all was good between us, but I really don't care either. I feel good knowing that I don't need to walk around eggshells around him, don't feel like I need to drop what I'm doing and be with him so he doesn't find companionship in anyone else and for once my priorities are first!! I don't seem to miss him anymore and I have gotten used to not looking at my phone waiting for a text. It took a while but I finally found who I used to be and I can't wait to see what I can accomplish next. I know how each of you are feeling and I know we can all be happy again :)
I just tell myself I had an awesome life before him and I will have an awesome life after him. He does not define who I am.

Feb 20 - 2PM
Epiphany2014
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Just what I needed to read today.....

Feb 20 - 9AM
evonjohn
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Good for you and YES it does

Feb 20 - 7AM
Hunter
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Each day is a day forward..

Feb 19 - 8PM
TDbfree
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Found

Feb 19 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
foundmyself
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It's funny you said what you