3d hoover in a week...don't know what to make of it

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#1 Aug 26 - 12PM
boubou29
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3d hoover in a week...don't know what to make of it

First email was to tell me why he ignored me for two months.
"I needed to protect myself, you create sadistic/masochistic relationships etc...but I dream of you, I just wanted to let you know...blablabla"

Second email "Let me be straightforward, no game, no calculation. Would you accept to see me again when I come back?"

Third email " You're refusing to talk to me. There are things I really need to tell you. Let me ask again: do you want to see me when I come back? If yes, there are things I would like to discuss, if no, I'll leave you alone, you know me, I won;t insist."

I got all these messages in the space of a week.

He's not trying to get back with me. It's obvious. There is no love bombing or anything like that. What is he trying to do then??? It's driving me crazy. I'm not responding. I keep ignoring. There is no possible communication with that man, I know it but what's his agenda? I'm having a hard time understanding.

What do you think?

Aug 26 - 6PM
thebigpayback
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i spent many hours

Aug 26 - 4PM
Warrior
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I've been quite dumb

Aug 26 - 2PM
TruthbeginsToday
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NARC NARC...?

Aug 26 - 1PM
spinning
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boubou, it's simple

spinning

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #20)
boubou29
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Reading everyone's messages

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #22)
shock and awe.some
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I enjoyed this bb

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #21)
spinning
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Love this, boubou, and

spinning

Aug 26 - 12PM
mystwoman
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What these hoovers are saying

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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #18)
boubou29
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Yes, you're spot on. Sadly. I

Aug 26 - 12PM
Hunter
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Idealize, devalue, discard ,

Aug 26 - 12PM
lessonlearned
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boubou

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #12)
boubou29
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Yes, you are right it seems.

Aug 26 - 6PM (Reply to #15)
ItsFinallytime
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Boubou - where are you on

Aug 26 - 6PM (Reply to #13)
thebigpayback
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boubou

Aug 26 - 8PM (Reply to #14)
Brave
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I agree here that its major

Aug 26 - 12PM
Done sourcing
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Let me give this a shot for

Aug 26 - 1PM (Reply to #7)
boubou29
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"Bite, don't ignore the

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
Done sourcing
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It did hurt me to know my

Aug 26 - 4PM (Reply to #9)
Janie53
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DS

Aug 26 - 5PM (Reply to #10)
Done sourcing
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Yep, neither the Narc, nor I,

Aug 26 - 12PM
Juliette
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He just wants a reaction. That's it.

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
boubou29
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Believe me, I spent countless

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
Warrior
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I fell for the threat of

Aug 26 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
boubou29
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Wow! You ARE a warrior! I

Aug 26 - 12PM
fallingforward5
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Supply.....