First semi-Hoover

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#1 Nov 23 - 4PM
Ariel28
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First semi-Hoover

So, my ex husband the narc brought our son back home after spending the last two days with him. Things have been great between us lately (healthy boundaries, short, kind and friendly exchanges when dropping off or picking up our son, or making arrangements about our son). So we were just chatting a bit about some funny stuff our son did while he was with his dad. Then as ex-N was walking out the door, he looks at me and says (in a seductive type voice), "what are YOU lookin at?" And looks down at his crotch! His eyes were all low and everything too, very suggestive. Then he shuts the door and leaves! I was awestruck because, since we split and he moved in immediately with the other woman (still lives there) nothing like this has happened.

Then my mind went to fantasies of us having sex and how "good" it would feel if he cheated on her with me. Or course I know this wouldn't really feel good and would open a horrible can of worms. So I texted him and asked what he meant by that he and he said he thought he had something on his pants or something. Ughhh. I wish I wouldn't have texted him. It's been over a year since I've had sex and I guess I was just horny!

Any advice or support from those who've had similar things is appreciated! As always,
Very thankful for this site :) love to everyone.

Nov 29 - 9AM
ididni
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big warning

Nov 29 - 10PM (Reply to #16)
Ariel28
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Thank you for your feedback!

Nov 28 - 7PM
Amazed
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Ariel28...keep your boundaries strong

Nov 26 - 9AM
Ariel28
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I am so disappointed in myself.

Nov 26 - 9AM (Reply to #9)
Goldie
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You are still listening to his WORDS

Nov 26 - 9AM (Reply to #10)
Ariel28
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Thank you Goldie!! This is

Nov 26 - 4PM (Reply to #13)
ItsFinallytime
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This will never change until

Nov 26 - 2PM (Reply to #11)
Goldie
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This is your lucky day

Nov 26 - 3PM (Reply to #12)
Cybyl
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This is how I joined Goldie

Nov 24 - 5AM
Lookforward
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I can't stand these guys -

Nov 24 - 4AM
thebigpayback
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all it means is.... nothing.

Nov 23 - 5PM
Ariel28
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Now he is texting me

Nov 23 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Radiant
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Stay Strong, Ariel28

Nov 23 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
Ariel28
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Thank you for your reply. I

Nov 24 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
shock and awe.some
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Hi Ariel. I'm sorry your ex

Nov 23 - 11PM (Reply to #4)
Radiant
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Atta girl, Ariel28!