HELP had a major setback!

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#1 Jun 3 - 7AM
sadderbutwiser
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HELP had a major setback!

i am starting to wonder if i will ever get better. on june 15th i will be THREE YEARS NC. my narc lives right down the street from me, which is why my recovery is taking longer than it should. however i have been so proud of myself because i see him putting on the act with everyone, but i have just been moving on with my life and reminding myself that he is pathetic. so, here i am getting psyched cause its the 3 year anniversary and i'm doing so well, and this weekend i found out that he has become good friends with neighbors who had previously told me that they knew he was a jerk and a weirdo. how has the narc managed to fool them AGAIN? i have felt physically sick since saturday when i found out. i feel like my recovery has been set back years. how will i ever get better when it is inevitable that due to our proximity i will keep having triggers? out of sight out of mind can't work for me cause i see him out and about. he is a POS and i have to watch him happily having fun with the neighbors? i want to throw up.

Jun 5 - 9PM
lookingahead
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Sadder

Jun 4 - 2PM
True2me
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I'm sorry to hear that you

Jun 5 - 9AM (Reply to #22)
sadderbutwiser
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True2me, thanks

Jun 3 - 5PM
Laci423
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sadder....

Jun 4 - 7AM (Reply to #18)
sadderbutwiser
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hi Laci423,

Jun 4 - 2PM (Reply to #19)
Laci423
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But sadder...

Jun 5 - 9AM (Reply to #20)
sadderbutwiser
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Laci423

Jun 3 - 1PM
sadderbutwiser
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thanks guys

Jun 3 - 5PM (Reply to #16)
Laci423
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sadder

Jun 3 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
Journey
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Well, in his narc reality

Journey on...

Jun 3 - 2PM (Reply to #10)
sadderbutwiser
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thanks, journey

Jun 3 - 8PM (Reply to #11)
Janie53
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Sadder

Jun 4 - 7AM (Reply to #12)
sadderbutwiser
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janie53,

Jun 4 - 8AM (Reply to #13)
Janie53
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SBW

Jun 4 - 8AM (Reply to #14)
sadderbutwiser
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thanks janie

Jun 4 - 8AM (Reply to #15)
Janie53
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SBW

Jun 3 - 8AM
lessonlearned
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"how has the narc managed to fool them AGAIN?"

Jun 3 - 8AM
Janie53
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SBW

Jun 3 - 7AM
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sadderbutwiser

Jun 3 - 7AM
Allesandra
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Sadderbutwiser

Jun 3 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
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allesandra

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Used

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