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#1 Jul 26 - 1PM
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In a relationship w my BF and his N exwife....when does the abuse end?

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 1 year, living with him for the past 7-8 months. The two kids, 5 and 6, from his previous marriage are in the home half the time. The abuse/mind control never goes away...in the beginning we combatted it and responded to all the drama. Now, NC unless absolutely necessary. It's getting to the point that needs severe intervention in the form of boundaries. I'm advocating ONLY email contact...no cell phone bc the bad mouthing never ends.

Lying to the kids, verbal confrontations, harrassment through text messages and the N way of thinking are making me feel like I'm the insane one! Any suggestions on methods others have used in dealing with these people?

Jul 29 - 11PM
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Thank you all for commenting!

Jul 30 - 6PM (Reply to #10)
I believe
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Hi Oddgirlout

Jul 30 - 7PM (Reply to #11)
Mycutefrenchie
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RUN RUNNNN RUNNNNNNNNNNNN

Jul 31 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
I believe
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Thanks MCF. My therapist said

Jul 30 - 8AM (Reply to #9)
Deidre99
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so, who's idea is it to go

Jul 30 - 12AM (Reply to #8)
Done sourcing
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You deserve to have a

Jul 29 - 1PM
Deidre99
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Let me preface with...my

Jul 26 - 1PM
Done sourcing
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You have unknowingly become

Jul 29 - 9AM (Reply to #5)
Mycutefrenchie
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How true...

Jul 27 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
Hunter
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Hello

Jul 29 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
Mycutefrenchie
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I feel so stupid...

Jul 29 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Mycutefrenchie
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I feel so stupid...