Coping in the office

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#1 May 7, 2012 - 12:05pm
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Coping in the office

There are so many unfortunate repercussions of having gotten involved with an N. It never seems to end, as though one were paying for the mistake over and over....

I'm really trying to cope with working in the same office as the ex-N. It is like prison, in some ways. Despite trying to live my life and go NC, I'm faced with his ongoing manipulations and now another woman on his radar (they just took a "business trip" as "co-workers", but I know the truth). After his trip, he had the audacity to make a new connection to the boss on Linked In. He thinks he can win at everything.

They are the losers (cheaters, liars, schemers, fakes), but the things they get away with are astounding. Honestly, some days I just give up--feel hopeless. I can't leave right now (no other options for employment).

May 16, 2012 - 9:02pm
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Rinalda

May 18, 2012 - 1:22pm (Reply to #16)
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Pathetic but still rather painful

May 9, 2012 - 10:41am
Rinalda
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Well, we’re all in the office

May 10, 2012 - 2:49pm (Reply to #14)
Rinalda
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This is jus brutal, having to

May 9, 2012 - 10:57am (Reply to #12)
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Rinalda

May 9, 2012 - 3:51pm (Reply to #13)
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Thanks

May 8, 2012 - 9:54am
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I know this doesn't typically

May 8, 2012 - 2:52pm (Reply to #10)
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Thank you. That's a good way

May 7, 2012 - 12:22pm
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Hang in there Rinalda, I know

May 7, 2012 - 12:45pm (Reply to #2)
Rinalda
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No way out right now

May 7, 2012 - 12:55pm (Reply to #3)
chris53
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Rinalda, don't let him get to

May 7, 2012 - 1:19pm (Reply to #4)
Rinalda
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Thanks for your replies. I'm

September 29, 2012 - 10:17am (Reply to #5)
dj1
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Rinalda, how are things going?

October 12, 2012 - 4:21pm (Reply to #6)
Rinalda
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It is tough

November 8, 2012 - 3:46pm (Reply to #7)
Take2
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Narc at work

November 22, 2012 - 6:47am (Reply to #8)
Rinalda
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Take2--It sounds like the